I've been abstaining from masturbation on-and-off for a year now, 7-14 days at a time.
Today I broke my nearly 3-week commitment, went at it three times within the past 12 hours, and ultimately feel like utter shit.
Just days before I've been outperforming my peers, driven by an inhuman sense of urgency and surge in energy. Now I can barely muster the energy to get out of bed.
There are hordes of men around the world whose potential is destroyed by the drug addiction that is dopamine release via orgasm.
Easily accessible Pornography, Intimate ASMR, and other erotic forms of entertainment that have surfaced with the growth of internet in the past 20 years has inhibited men to a point where--some claim--that allowed extreme feminism and female domination in the work-place to surface.
NoFap isn't about abstaining from sex or even masturbation. It's about self-control and resisting instant gratification.
Your Lord knows very well what is in your heart. Your soul suffices this day as a reckoner against you. I need no witnesses. You do not listen to your soul, but listen instead to your anger and your rage.
But it's better than you get a fat-chick to bang in a steady relationship than it is to not have a release.
Lower your standards. A lot. You're not worth that much if you feel like "no-fap" stuff is a good idea. You don't deserve anyone you think is attractive. You need to start at the bottom.
This has nothing to do with lowering standards. A lot of people do NoFap to force themselves into relationships rather than relying on porn, but that's not why I and many others (even in relationships) do it.
For us it's about steering ourselves away from what is in essence a drug addiction and regaining control of our lives.
The dopamine release experienced by orgasm is similar to that of hard drugs; and easily accessible porn/erotic media has left little to the imagination or social skills.
Prior to limiting my sessions, I was pretty unproductive, anxious, and a shell of man.
I slowly started limiting myself to X number of fap sessions per week and reaped the benefits.
Started lifting, making leaps at work and education, improved confidence, etc.
I think many of the posters here could benefit by looking into this.
I don't know about relationship, but you have pretty good odds to take home a fatty at the bar and it won't kill you. Just think of it like a shopping trip; set a weight limit and pick the ones that look ripest.
You might even develop a taste too. It's better than the weird shit people are doing now to... well, not sure what it does, but it's better than being backed up by cum.
Jizzing also isn't the issue either, it's porn. Give up porn. Jack off normally like your grandpa did.
Hey, if it works for you, cool. Personally I love fapping and feel clear headed afterwards and find that I'm more productive if I do it at least once a day. It's free, it's fun, it's harmless (actually I believe there are health benefits to ejaculating once a day, having to do with prostate health, don't quote me on that, though), and it doesn't take long unless you want it to.
I also don't recommend getting into a relationship with someone who you don't find attractive just for empty release. That will just cause problems. Get into a relationship because you actually want to be in one and work at it and find the person genuinely attractive.
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If you're healthy, work out regularly, and eat decently, you'll have more than enough sex-drive to aggressively pursue relationships as long as you're not beating your poor little wiener twice a day.
No it's not. It's about deluding yourself into believing a religion instead of actually learning how to control yourself and healthily pursue relationships with the opposite sex.
Yes, the placebo effect is very interesting, isn't it?
Did the "no-fap" help you bang the fat chick that needs a dicking? I'd wager not.
Hence, your placebo religion is a waste of time. You can literally bang a chick tonight. Install tinder. Hook up with a fat chick. You'll bang someone tonight. Guaranteed.
Unless you're a whale, disgusting, and a neckbard. Then you need to stop being a fatass, stop eating so much, workout religiously (and stop with the no-fap religion), and focus on studying more for your chosen career, Kurk.
To be clear, my variation involves fapping, but no more frequently than once a week if necessary. Additionally I injaculate which quite honestly allows me to retain the Qi energy that would have been lost during ejaculation. Semen production is more demanding of nutrients than you would think, so why not retain it ? Another pro is that your endurance increases quite a bit if done correctly.
From what I know, no clear correlation between masturbating and prostate health has been found. Wet dreams should take care of 'cleaning out the pipes' if you ask me.
Instead of fulfilling an urge to masturbate, try doing push-ups until the urge dissipates.
I agree that you shouldn't objectify women or get into a relationship mostly for physical traits as it'll never work in the long run as both partners age.
I don't know why you targeting me over this. NoFap has actually allowed me to socialize with women more than I did prior. I'm not interested in 'banging a fat chick' for the sake of getting some 'hole'. That is not the issue here. There are sex toys, there is tinder, there are prostitutes if just sex was the issue.
It's because my ejaculated inner ki was increased by having actual sex. So my ki powers have transcended standard qi realms and I am now in the advanced proto-cosmic qi condensing level.
Every time I have sex, now, I become (Kurk+1)^1.3 better. My powers are increasing exponentially and nothing can stop me.
I'm helicoptering my dick as I type this because my penis powers are so strong I have to dissipate some of it into the atmosphere or else I have to have sex.
That reminds me, I need to watch all of the new Dragonball series to catch up. And then watch the movies in order they were released as I watch the show.
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