This is a case study of how the life of a decent family-oriented man can be ruined by his own wife in a system that treats a man as "guilty until proven innocent" on a mere complaint.
The wife can call the police and get her husband arrested by accusing him of doing something he never did. While the man is subjected to embarassing treatment by the Police and a potentially lengthy investigation process, he can loose his job as well and this loss might push him over the edge.
Watch this podcast for perspective:
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Some points in mind.
Why the husband is arrested on a mere complaint from his wife by default in any state? Why the "guilty until proven innocent" rule applies to a man in a matter involving his wife by default?
The Police's initial response should be to push for "amends" between the husband and wife after a complaint is lodged by her. The Police should arrest the husband IF it has reason to assume that he was violent with his wife. Not otherwise.
Why organization(s) are so eager to FIRE a man over his domestic problems? Why not wait for the investigation process to conclude?
This is overstepping on a man's right to continue to earn due to his domestic problems. This is Cancel Culture taken to the extreme. There should be a legal process to stop an organization in its tracks in this case.
Education Sector has become Female dominated. Why Male teachers are in decline?
Education Sector employment practices should be investigated.
Women rights are important for various reasons but these should not be at the expense of men rights. The system should investigate a complaint but adopt sensible methods to do the needful. False accusations from any person irrespective of the gender should be strongly penalized. The system should be aimed to dispense justice.
The fact you're using reactionary, manosphere, Incel-adjacent podcasts like that for "perspective" says all we need to know about your motivations. You had no intention of being unbiased or acting in good faith with that post.
...that's what the trial is for dude. If he was "guilty until proven innocent", he'd be thrown in prison. He wasn't. (Jail =/= prison)
You don't know what reasons the Police did or didn't have though, do you? Now that he's committed suicide, instead of showing up for court, the case is thrown out -- we'll never know the details. I'm sympathetic to his emotional stress, but there's not much to be done if the dude kills himself.
He wasn't fired, as you claim. He was put on paid leave while everyone waits for the case to conclude. There is no cancel culture happening here.
Last edited by StyleTime on Dec 8th, 2022 at 03:02 PM
People have their lives ruined on accusations all the time. Careers lost, families lost, names dragged through the mud, happens all the time.
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System should penalize those who make false accusations irrespective of their gender. Not many people can afford to fight off accusations in courts. Not many are lucky like Johny Depp.
Deceased Principal's wife issued following statement:
"Chris was the love of my life and I am crushed at what happened. I didn’t make him do this and it’s not my fault. I am not sick I just know in my heart what’s true."
This. It's not her fault. She just called the cops and the system began to drag her husband through the mud from that point onwards.
Principal's daughter's revelations are in the link posted above.
Your Lord knows very well what is in your heart. Your soul suffices this day as a reckoner against you. I need no witnesses. You do not listen to your soul, but listen instead to your anger and your rage.
S_W_LeGenD: His wife accused him and he was guilty from there
StyleTime: He was not, there was no trial to begin with
S_W_LeGenD: He was fired without proof
StyleTime: He was put on paid leave while the case was handled
S_W_LeGenD: He was falsely accused
StyleTime: We actually don't know what is or isn't false here
Weird...
What it actually seems is that this guy had some serious mental issues. He paints his life and marriage as great and then one fight and one night in jail over what could have or not have been false accusations of hitting someone sets him to kill himself. He even states his wife regrets doing what she did, but then says it can't be resolved. That's not a person in their right mind. It's unfortunate he killed himself regardless if he struck his wife or not.
not weird at all. quite typical unfortunately. weird would be if swlegend was like "wow you're right. my bad". that would be weird af
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Your Lord knows very well what is in your heart. Your soul suffices this day as a reckoner against you. I need no witnesses. You do not listen to your soul, but listen instead to your anger and your rage.
How about empathy for the man who was arrested by the cops and put in jail followed by suspension from his job because of the charges filed? It is obvious that these developments took a toll on him.
The man's daughter from previous marriage pointed out that his second wife was toxic and a liar.
As I said before - guilty until proven innocent.
Look at the man's credentials and compare yourself to them.
Point is how the system is designed to treat a man when his wife "accuses" him of doing something that he strongly denies. I pointed out the solution as well.
Perhaps you need to go through the experience to find out. Do not be a heartless jerk meanwhile.
Even the man's wife regrets calling the cops. She said that she attempted to control the damage to no avail.
Open the links and read them next time. Because you like a few others are conditioned to believe that women do not lie and are very desperate to please Feminists. You do not have to if you are feeling lonely, really.
It is unfortunate that the man opted out in this manner, he might have cleared his name if he had good councel but who knows.
Last edited by S_W_LeGenD on Dec 9th, 2022 at 07:15 AM
^as expected, deflects from all his asserted lies with a sanctimonious nonsensical word salad. easily predicted shitpost, not weird at all imho.
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Last edited by Bashar Teg on Dec 9th, 2022 at 12:41 PM
As expected, you are a moron with intellectual deficiency. That you cannot present an argument without accusing somebody of having an agenda, shows that you are the one who has agenda. Men like you are a part of the problem.
Nobody is forcing you to comment on my thread. So STFU.
Your Lord knows very well what is in your heart. Your soul suffices this day as a reckoner against you. I need no witnesses. You do not listen to your soul, but listen instead to your anger and your rage.
Please, for your own well-being, resist those hosts' brain rot. You're so far down the rabbit hole that you think us being neutral is the same as believing women don't lie.
The objective view here is what we said: there's not enough evidence to determine what happened.
You're just saying "Nope. Man good. Woman bad."
We didn't take anyone's side. You did.
Last edited by StyleTime on Dec 9th, 2022 at 10:55 PM
If charges were filed then evidence of a crime must've been present. That evidence was just never tested in court because he killed himself before that happened.
It looks like the podcast (Fresh & Fit) triggered you and you continue to react like a typical Feminazi in your posts here. You were quick to declare men in the podcast incels and question my motive by extension. How would I know that you find this podcast objectionable? Do I know you in person? You could point out the problem without your unwelcome vitoral. I do NOT watch this podcast on a regular basis and neither you should assume that I would agree with every single statement of its hosts. Nevertheless, subscription base of this podcast has exceeded 1.5 million which indicates that the hosts are doing a fine job or their talking points resonate with experiences of many people out there. Go figure.
Coming towards the topic:
Yes, there's not enough evidence to determine what happened. But the man [in question] has no track record of being violent or mistreating women. He was an accomplished academic (Teacher and Principal), and well-respected for his work.
The man's daughter from his previous marriage came forward and pointed out that her step mom is a toxic woman and her father was not happy.
"However, law enforcement believed her enough to put him in jail for two nights, charge him with the two domestic violence-related offenses, and set his bail at $10,000._
In an exclusive interview with DailyMail.com, his daughter claimed that it was actually Marlena who was abusive, and accused the divorced mother of tearing apart her family.
Brittany Christensen, 26, is one of the late principal's three children from his first marriage, which ended in divorce in 1999."
'The charges were inaccurate. [Marlena] has been very difficult in our family for about the last year, and we haven't had any contact with her,' the daughter said.
'I'd just now started regaining contact with him over the last two weeks, and it's been really great. He'd been trying to figure out how to leave her.
'In my opinion, it seems like this, in his mind, was his way out of his relationship.
'She's been abusive to our entire family for five years. That's why we don't have any contact with her any more,' Brittany added, claiming Marlena's story to cops was 'riddled with lies'.
The man's mother also pointed out that she had reservations about her son's second wife. This information is in following link:
And you think that I am saying "Nope. Man good. Woman bad." ??
You claim to be neutral but your unwelcome vitoral suggest otherwise.
You FAILED to understand the problem:
"The wife can call the police and get her husband arrested by accusing him of doing something he never did. While the man is subjected to embarassing treatment by the Police and a potentially lengthy investigation process, he can loose his job as well and this loss might push him over the edge."
Go ahead and prove those women wrong if you can.
Last edited by S_W_LeGenD on Dec 10th, 2022 at 12:56 AM
I am trolling? It is obvious that some of you cannot debate social problems of men with maturity. Some of you are very inclined to attack a man for highlighting these problems in this forum.
I do not have an agenda but I do feel the need expose the problem of sexism against men. It manifests in various ways as pointed out by a woman in following post:
Your Lord knows very well what is in your heart. Your soul suffices this day as a reckoner against you. I need no witnesses. You do not listen to your soul, but listen instead to your anger and your rage.
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