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cermiestar
kitten

Gender: Female
Location: London

*sobs*BIG problem*sobs*

Ever have the MAJOR MAJOR problem where you're torn between two or more friends?

I HATE HATE HATE that.......

ok this is going to sound really trivial but *sobs*

ok i have these two friends and #1 is having a REALLY cool birthday party with like a bouncy castle and all these kids games and it sounds pathetic but it will be really fun! #2 is having a sort of formal dance with a band and stuff......and well they were talking about it and they realised it was on the same day and they both wanted to invite me *this sounds really self centered*. but #2 said to #1 that she wouldn't invite me so i could go to #1 party but now #2 is annoyed cos she wants me to come and she told me about her party and now....*sobs*

this sounds REALLY pathetic....anyways....what do you people think i should do?

Sep 7th, 2003 07:18 PM

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wicker_man
V.2

Gender: Male
Location: The Local Shop

Oh yes iv'e been in a similar situation.

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Sep 7th, 2003 07:19 PM

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cermiestar
kitten

Gender: Female
Location: London

what did you do?

Sep 7th, 2003 07:20 PM

wicker_man
V.2

Gender: Male
Location: The Local Shop

We can give advice but its up 2 u at the end of the day as u know the situation a hell of a lot better then any of us,at the end of the day it is your desicion but beleive me i know the feeling.

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Sep 7th, 2003 07:23 PM

cermiestar
kitten

Gender: Female
Location: London

advice is welcome.... smile

Sep 7th, 2003 07:23 PM

must_kill_Santa
Evil Princess

Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom

woah major bummer depends maybe one could have theers the day after so they could both invite you and eachother

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Sep 7th, 2003 07:29 PM

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Phoenix
Luna Lovegood

Gender: Female
Location: in a double decker bus...

cermiegirl, is one earlier than the other? cos if ya go to one, and leave early and arrive fashionably late to the other one it should all be good

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Sep 7th, 2003 07:53 PM

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Baylin
Back in story!

Gender: Male
Location: Deep shit as always...!

quote:
Originally posted by Phoenix
cermiegirl, is one earlier than the other? cos if ya go to one, and leave early and arrive fashionably late to the other one it should all be good

Thats what I'd do!

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Sep 7th, 2003 08:00 PM

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must_kill_Santa
Evil Princess

Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom

what no-one likes my idea

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Sep 7th, 2003 08:03 PM

DeNiro
Senior Member

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hmm someone should start a advice thread o yeah i already did wink

i read half of ur problem so i dont know what ur askin can u ask in one simple short sentence

Sep 7th, 2003 08:18 PM

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Pablo G
Coolest Beaner Around

Gender: Male
Location: Hermosillo, Mexico

Yeah I was gonna recommend the Ask DeNiro for advice thread but do as the other guys say, go to one party and then the other. They're just parties you know ?

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Sep 7th, 2003 09:37 PM

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Evy_O
don't let go

Gender: Female
Location: forever dancing

I agree with Phoe, you should try and combine somehow the hours. Even if the times are similar, you could go to both. Just decide which one you like better, go to the other first then go to the one you like better and everyone will be satisfied... or, at least, your friends will admit you did your best.

It has happened to me too roll eyes (sarcastic)

Awful situation, even if it does sound trivial.

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Sep 7th, 2003 09:56 PM

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Dexx
wingless

Gender: Male
Location: Bucharest, Romania

either you flip a coin, OR you get them both and tell them you're going to none just for this very reason. None can blame you at the end

Sep 8th, 2003 02:03 AM

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yerssot
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*waves to evy* smile

if that all doesn't work... call in sick... no wait ... that's with work...

Sep 8th, 2003 05:32 PM

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Dexx
wingless

Gender: Male
Location: Bucharest, Romania

yeah....you could pretend sick or something , but do it in a somewhat obvious way wink

..so that they'll both know WHY you didn't come

Sep 8th, 2003 05:58 PM

yerssot
Senior Member

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subtlety dexx, you should look it up wink

Sep 8th, 2003 06:04 PM

SpikeSpiegel
Swimming Bird

Gender: Male
Location: United Kingdom

no no if both of them know why shes not going then they'll feel really bad for making her choose and will do loads of stuff for her, im withdexx on this one.

PS Don't listen to me I'm useless when it come to the opposite sex.

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