Kelly_Bean
Warum ist die Sonne rund?
Gender: Female Location: Mars
Phone Conversations.
How do you people possibly find new subjects to talk about each day to your spouse? I find myself sitting in silence for 3-5 minutes before getting pissed and getting off of the phone because I'm tired of the silence that I could be enduring while doing other things. Yes, this is an advice question, kind of. Fill me in.
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Jun 15th, 2006 05:35 PM
botankus
Bass-ackwards
Gender: Male Location: Eastern NC
Have 2-3 hobbies that you can do by yourself or with someone else.
This thread might actually qualify for the GDF.
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Jun 15th, 2006 05:49 PM
Eternalist 04
Forever Halo
Gender: Male Location: United States
...hmm just tell her to talk and if she says about what u tell her... "dont questin me biotch i will do something kinky to you!" and thats when you start to talk something fun
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Jun 15th, 2006 05:51 PM
Soleran
Fast As Time
Gender: Male Location: Made of Dreams
Re: Phone Conversations.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
How do you people possibly find new subjects to talk about each day to your spouse? I find myself sitting in silence for 3-5 minutes before getting pissed and getting off of the phone because I'm tired of the silence that I could be enduring while doing other things. Yes, this is an advice question, kind of. Fill me in.
Learn to know when to end a conversation with your loved one! Its the ability to not talk and be ok with your "spouse" then to sit there and constantly feel the need to carry on that makes relationships bearable!
Jun 15th, 2006 06:10 PM
Alpha Centauri
Restricted
Gender: Unspecified Location: Ground Zero.
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You're asking us how to talk on the phone with your partner? You've got relationship problems that are way beyond our help, if that's the case.
-AC
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Jun 15th, 2006 06:17 PM
LanceWindu
Senior Member
Gender: Unspecified Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
How do you people possibly find new subjects to talk about each day to your spouse? I find myself sitting in silence for 3-5 minutes before getting pissed and getting off of the phone because I'm tired of the silence that I could be enduring while doing other things. Yes, this is an advice question, kind of. Fill me in.
If there is silence and there is nothing to talk about, then just say goodbye and hang up. Otherwise you're forcing conversation, which isn't good.
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Jun 15th, 2006 06:20 PM
Mr. Sandman
Sintastic
Gender: Male Location: New York City
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Alpha Centauri
You're asking us how to talk on the phone with your partner? You've got relationship problems that are way beyond our help, if that's the case.
-AC
You always ****ing beat me to what I'm going to say.
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Jun 15th, 2006 06:24 PM
Pandemoniac
Disco Infernal
Gender: Male Location: The Netherlands
What I've all ways found amazing is the difference in content and duration when comparing a phone-conversation between girls and a phone-call among dudes.
Girls go like 'oooh got a new skirt and blabla have you heard about that ***** and that guy and oh yeah my dog has cramps but hey! did I tell you about that dude and the *****? Blablalbla.. Oh Yeah, got a new skirt, to bad you won't fit it, blabla'
Guys have phone-conversations like this; 'hey, how about a beer?'
- 'Cool, see ya in the pub at 9'
And there we guys do talk seriously and personal, without borhering every last person on the bus with cellphones like women tend to do
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Jun 15th, 2006 06:27 PM
BlackSunshine
Do what you want to do
Gender: Female Location:
I HATE talking on the phone. I cant ever find anything intresting to say.
Jun 15th, 2006 06:30 PM
Kelly_Bean
Warum ist die Sonne rund?
Gender: Female Location: Mars
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Pandemoniac
What I've all ways found amazing is the difference in content and duration when comparing a phone-conversation between girls and a phone-call among dudes.
Girls go like 'oooh got a new skirt and blabla have you heard about that ***** and that guy and oh yeah my dog has cramps but hey! did I tell you about that dude and the *****? Blablalbla.. Oh Yeah, got a new skirt, to bad you won't fit it, blabla'
Guys have phone-conversations like this; 'hey, how about a beer?'
- 'Cool, see ya in the pub at 9'
And there we guys do talk seriously and personal, without borhering every last person on the bus with cellphones like women tend to do
I rarely wear skirts. He doesn't drink beer. So neither of us fit into that category.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by BlackSunshine
I HATE talking on the phone. I cant ever find anything intresting to say.
You and me both, my friend.
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Jun 15th, 2006 10:22 PM
BlackSunshine
Do what you want to do
Gender: Female Location:
I find it alot easier to talk to someone in person....cuz you cant really express how you feel over the phone.
Jun 15th, 2006 10:41 PM
Kelly_Bean
Warum ist die Sonne rund?
Gender: Female Location: Mars
quote: (post ) Originally posted by BlackSunshine
I find it alot easier to talk to someone in person....cuz you cant really express how you feel over the phone.
Me too, dearly. But Daniel and I have a hard time being able to do that. Daniel and I talk WAY more in person than on the phone.
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Jun 15th, 2006 10:55 PM
BlackSunshine
Do what you want to do
Gender: Female Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Me too, dearly. But Daniel and I have a hard time being able to do that. Daniel and I talk WAY more in person than on the phone.
ah yes I forgot about that. I just wish I could help ya.
Jun 15th, 2006 10:59 PM
Kelly_Bean
Warum ist die Sonne rund?
Gender: Female Location: Mars
quote: (post ) Originally posted by BlackSunshine
ah yes I forgot about that. I just wish I could help ya.
Thanks. He got a new family car just today and he promised just with that that we'd have more summer time to see each other. I hope he's right.
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Jun 15th, 2006 11:03 PM
BlackSunshine
Do what you want to do
Gender: Female Location:
well thats good!!!
Jun 15th, 2006 11:10 PM
Kelly_Bean
Warum ist die Sonne rund?
Gender: Female Location: Mars
Yeah, It is. I'm just hoping that he actually takes those oppurtinities instead of letting them pass by because sometimes he can act WAY too much like, well, a MAN!
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Jun 15th, 2006 11:15 PM
BlackSunshine
Do what you want to do
Gender: Female Location:
ah yes...I know all about THAT lol But dont let that get to you. I'm sure he wont be like that everytime. But you do gotta give him some space.
Jun 15th, 2006 11:16 PM
Kelly_Bean
Warum ist die Sonne rund?
Gender: Female Location: Mars
Every woman knows about that at some point in her life. All we have to say is "He's acting like a man." and every woman knows exactly how that goes. And sure, I've let it get to many times before. Things should mellow out when he lives with me (:lol . No more freaking leaving the toilet seat up.
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Jun 15th, 2006 11:19 PM
BlackSunshine
Do what you want to do
Gender: Female Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Every woman knows about that at some point in her life. All we have to say is "He's acting like a man." and every woman knows exactly how that goes. And sure, I've let it get to many times before. Things should mellow out when he lives with me (:lol . No more freaking leaving the toilet seat up.
yup
Jun 15th, 2006 11:22 PM
LanceWindu
Senior Member
Gender: Unspecified Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by ILoveMyDaniel
Every woman knows about that at some point in her life. All we have to say is "He's acting like a man." and every woman knows exactly how that goes. And sure, I've let it get to many times before. Things should mellow out when he lives with me (:lol . No more freaking leaving the toilet seat up.
This always irks me...why can't you simply look at the seat before sitting down? Not our faults you carelessly sit down with the seat up. Or why can't you leave the seat up for us when you're done? It works both ways you know.
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Jun 15th, 2006 11:29 PM
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