Evil Dead
Enemy of the Gospel
I belive ther is no unselfish deed everything someone does is selfish and he does it only for himself (kind of like Nietzsche if you know who that is)
yes I know who he is......but I do not agree with that.
I believe there are many unselfish deeds we all do daily.......some mundane and every now and again one great enough to be considered heroic.
Something as small as changing your plans to make your wife happy is unselfish. If my wife loves to go to the theater (which she does).....and I despise it (which I do).........by saying, "ok honey, we'll go watch this play tonight" I am doing something completely unselfish.......something purely for her benefit. There is no reward for me........but I am giving something of myself (me time, my presence) for the sole reason of bringing her enjoyment. While not being heroic........the same would apply to larger situations, like my bullet analogy earlier.
It doesn't even need to be out of love. I've given money to homeless people before.......just so they can eat. This family used to hang out in front of Walmart......man, woman and two kids.........when I see those people and their children and give them a $20 to go to the McDonalds across the street it is completely unselfish. I didn't do it to make myself feel good........I actually didn't feel good about the situation at all. I couldn't pat myself on the back thinking I had done a good deed........all I could think about was those kids standing in the cold, not knowing when the last time they had eaten.....which saddened me. It was not done out of love.........more out of concern for other human beings and their well being.
There is this older homeless woman who rides around town on her bike (well did, havn't seen her in a long time). About three years ago I found her asleep on the bench outside of my work.........without shoes. I knew the shoes I was wearing at the time weren't that great (just old tennis shoes I throw on to drive to work in, where I change into my work shoes) but figured she would appreciate them much more than I. I sat them down on the bench next to her bag she was using as a pillow. I figured sure, they may be too big for her but they'd keep her feet alot warmer than those socks she was wearing.....and I have many shoes at home. Again, it wasn't to make myself feel good.......it's impossible to feel good at all when you see someone like that.......but it was giving something purely for someone else's benefit, I gained nothing.
I do understand what you're saying.......I just don't agree. I know alot of people just walk around minding their own business but I can't help but to help someone a little when I see the chance. I'm not really a great humanitarian.......I donate to one charity and that's it....but when you see a real person in a bad situation and you can help, you do it...even if you can only help a little. If every person did so that homeless woman wouldn't need to be so worried about being cold......and her shoes wearing out....or her clothes getting holes in them. I may be in the minority (judging by others at work laughing at me) but people seem to look past others and not see them as human beings..............whereas I thinks it crap that I have 6 pair of shoes I wear regularly, a couple pair of boots, shoes I wear strictly to mow the lawn in, shoes I wear strictly to work and a pile of old shoes in the closet that I don't even wear anymore........and this woman is sleeping in the cold with no shoes at all.