The word deity comes from the Latin word "deus," which means god. Deity means god. You can have one deity and one god or multiple deities referring to more than one god and or goddesses.
So basically, your question is: "How is a god defined?"
The question of defining the term god is extremely problematic - every sort of theism and every sort of theistic religion seems to have their own definitions.
What is the definition of a deity?
this is:
http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=deity
if you don't like what's written there, write a letter to them complaining