Originally posted by Adam_PoE
Perhaps X shares with Y because Y has skills necessary for his survival.Perhaps X shares with Y because X would rather suffer some detriment than have no companionship.
It is quite possible that this is egoistic behavior.
Possibly. I should have clarified "all else being equal," or something to that effect, to minimize the variables to consider.
I am not denying that life is self-oriented (again, IMO, it would be like denying water is wet). But I don't think all human behavior is necessarily selfish. One doesn't become a fireman, or run into a burning World Trade Tower, for selfish reasons. Yes, the fireman is feeling "mightily heroic" for doing so, a boon to his ego. But clearly he is still willing to sacrifice his life to save others, others whom he does not even know.
Consider it altruistic egoism. We can't help being egoistic--it's what we are, it is not a goal or philosophy to adopt. It is our very nature, being symbol-using, self-aware beings. Therefore, egoism, in itself, should not necessarily carry a negative connotation ("damn you, water, for being wet!"😉. It should not be synonymous with being "selfish," which does have a negative connotation.
The feeling I'm getting from this thread is, it's almost as if people want to go "See? All behavior is selfish. At the core we are no good. So perhaps why even try to do good? If I'm being selfish, it's okay."
If that's the case (and it may not be), then perhaps this thread should also be discussing rationalization for one's behavior.