Heya! i was just wondering can people fall in love? Do they? or is it just a megga crush. How do u know if your in love? Is it possible to love someone without being in love?
but just because they're the last person you think of when u go to sleep and the first when u wake up, u randomly find yourself smling at little things they say even though they're not around, and you would do anything for them, is that enough? xxx
Love is a matter of projection. You project the idea that "I'm in love" onto a person or situation, rather than there being some arbitrary point at which lust/infatuation/liking ends and love begins.
In other words, the only person that can answer the question for you is yourself, because you create the meaning of it. It's far from an objective endeavor. The closest you could get is possibly monitoring brain patterns when they claim to be in love, but this would also be undermined by the different ways people experience "love" (newly-weds, people married 50 years, life partners, best friends, love for a concept/idea/object/food/etc.) It's really just too amorphous to pin down.
It is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust.
Love can take many different forms, some of which don' t require people to be in love: friendly love, familial love, ...
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Yes it is very possible. I was in love once. Relationship ended pretty good as we are still friends to tis day. Its very possible to fall for someone while not in love. For each person it is different as to how you know whether or not you are in love. For me I knew when my eyes met with hers.
ahan, ofcourse. there are different levels of love though, even when your IN love. i think selflessness is a good indicater, and joy which u cudnt have thought possible when ur around em/with em/thinking of em/thinking of beein with em. yea basically, ull know when ur in love.
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Can you fallin love?
Jan 31st, 2008 07:18 PM
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