It's an ego problem....Submission by dominance.....From what I've read there is some sort of abuse in 1 out of ever 3 house holds here in the US...Kinda makes staring out your window while driving a little more imaginary.
Gender: Female Location: California Currently: SINGLE
Re: domestic violence
Ones to blame? As in "Why does a person become violent?"
It's a number of reasons.
The most common is that the person was abused physically and/or verbally.
Example:
Lets say that a boy has been abused since birth basically; Well, as he gets older and the abuse continues, he'll want "revenge" so to speak. He'll want to have others feel the same fear that he felt all his life. He'll want to be that man that "lays down the law".
Another reason is that the child of the same sex as the abusing parent watches the parent abuse their spouse and begins to believe that that is the way you're suppose to act.
There are hundreds of reasons. But there's a couple of the most common for you.
Domestic violence pisses me off, I hate it when women, who have abused for years by their sick husbands, finally break and kill them, then get hauled into court charged with murder.
Yeah and I hate when men who have been abused for years and years do the same..............lol numerically women have it worse however that doesn't exclude men.
You'd think the logical female defense would be "It makes me sick that these females stick around and suffer."
I'm aware it's not that simple but it's a much more logical argument than saying, more or less "I wish they didn't get sent to jail for a crime they committed."
Men are physically more stronger than women, though. I do believe that men, if they are being beaten around by a woman, could easily defend themsleves.
So it's ok for a woman to do it? See this is what annoys me about male/female violence.
I've never hit a girl, but if there's a guy being pummelled by a woman purely because she believes "I'm a girl, you can't hit me", and he socks her back...let's be fair, what did she expect? No woman deserves beatings, but if a guy hits a woman once in self defense, he's going down to chinatown isn't he?
when i was out one night, this one woman was punchin this bloke repeatedly ,and he was just standing there. she finally threw one puch to many and he just banged her out.
harsh but fair
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"How about this? Shut your mouth...Or I'll kick your teeth down your throat and shut it for you."
I remember, about a year ago, a man was put on trial for killing his wife. He argued she had provoked him. Okay, she never hit him, but she had been having an affair, told him to his face that she was having it off with his best friend, and that he (the defendant) was lousy and bed, and sex with him made her sick. He lost control and killed her. I don't blame him for doing that, I would have belted her too.
I don't condone violence against women, not I condone it against women. I just believe, IMO, mind you, that men, being more strong than women, could defend themselves if they wanted to.
A woman threatens a man saying that if he leaves her, she'll kill him? He can leave. Men and more likely to commit murder than women.
Just my opinion, I think men can defend themselves.
lol I lived about 15 miles from the bobbets. You know the case where a wife cut off her husbands d#ick and threw it in a field because of how he treated her. He was asleep and they found it and fixed him my point is anywhere anytime you can never guess what will happen and women are as capable as men
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Feb 20th, 2006 07:44 PM
*dodges rotten vegitables*
Relationships=emotion which I realise you know but its my low shot at this discussion
