This is a hard fight for Elecktra. Wolverine is no slouch in speed, reflexes, and skill. Plus Logan's adamantium skeleton would be very hard to get around. She could possibly injure her hand or foot by striking him on the skull. Plus his hits would be very devastating considering his speed, strength, and adamantium bones.
Never let anyone else define you. Don't be a jerk just to be a jerk, but if you are expressing your true inner feelings and beliefs, or at least trying to express that inner child, and everyone gets pissed off about it, never NEVER apologize for it. Let them think what they want, let them define you in their narrow little minds while they suppress every last piece of them just to keep a friend that never liked them for themselves in the first place.