It's hard to explain but I'll try usualy in a group of friends you can see small pairs of ppl who really connect and are closer with eachother than they are with the other ppl in the group, not much just a bit.
It's the ppl who don't get called to be asked what's up and so on...
It's the ppl who don't meet regular with just the one person of the group.
It's the ppl who's company is enjoyed when they are there but who aren't really missed when they aren't there either
things like that....
Ever had it?
well if you do, you'll know it aint a too good a feeling
I have had it for most of my life, which kinda sucks.
But ofc there are exceptions to this rule lately more and more
Still it sucks from time to time.
it doesn't bother me too hard, but it does bother me else I wouldn't have made this thread
PS: I made this thread in GDF for a reason to keep this serious and on topic
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well, I don't care about me being "second best friend" 'cause I'm extremely cautions who to call a friend and who to trust
but unfortunatly, I am guilty of treading some persons as second best friends
I try not to do it, cause I know it sucks
and well you know me, so you know I call ppl a friend very easily, possibly that's naive but I don't care that's who I am
You also know, almost better than anyone, that I will believe almost everything a friend tells me, again possibly naive but I don't care, HONNESTY is the BASE of FRIENDSHIP
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I getcha, but thats life unfortunately. You're always gonna connect with some people on levels that you don't with others, but as long as you make everyone feel welcome in a group then thats okay IMO.
I have friends who I could laugh with all day, but then I couldn't talk to them about things that worry or concern me. I think we all adapt the people we are when in different groups.
Oh and about the best friend thing, people may do that without even noticing. I mean you cant help but get closer wit some people than others. Not everyone can be as close. And some people may be doing that to you without realizing.......its best if you let them know, or another things is some people just know eachother longer and better than they know others so they stick by those people they know
but i dont let it get to me cuz it doesnt happen often in happy land
I have two best friends and make a consious effort not to exclude either of them in any way, avoiding for one of them to feel like the 'back-up' best friend. It would be easier if the two didn't hate eachother so much...
As for me, I used to have that feeling frequently in elementary school, and it used to really bother and upset me. But now that I'm in my senior years, I'm surrounded by a bunch of wonderful and caring people who have matured and hopefully have moved on from excluding others.
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The Poking Goddess Has Returned..again..*hiss*
Living in the shadow of someone else's dream.
Trying to find a hand to hold but every touch felt cold to me.
Living in a nightmare..a never-ending sleep.
But now that I am wide awake..my chains are finally free.
Don't feel sorry for me.
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Oct 24th, 2003 10:47 PM
*hugs*
