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naamarie
Naamarie
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Location: lothlorien |
~*~life Problems~*~
i tried to look for a place like this where everyone can talk about stuf that your having trouble with in life, a place where good people help those in need of giudance... i this topic you can talk about anything that your having trouble with from math homework to guys (or girls)
well heres my problem.... see i have this friend whos super cool and i have like the hugest crush on him, and i think he likes me too but im not sure and im afraid to tell him how i feel cuz im just scared of what will happen and then the other day some stuff happened with us and i dont know where its heading so i was just wondering what you think that i should do because i have no clue
-thanks
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~*~Naamarie~*~
thanks for the sig Aldaron
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Nov 4th, 2004 02:23 PM |
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airbonic
Ahh! norms!
 Gender: Unspecified
Location: Wetlands |
Please Take it from me...life is short...very very short. Within a reasonable limit...do all you can to live a happy life. If you like this guy then tell him...be straight with him coz thats what guys like. if you think he likes you then chances are that he does coz hes obviously given some type of indication of it. Whats the worst that can happen...he says no! so what...have a laugh about it and then move on.....YOU WILL NEVER KNOW IF YOU DONT TRY!!!!
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Nov 4th, 2004 02:28 PM |
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naamarie
Naamarie
Gender: Female
Location: lothlorien |
i know that ... but its so hard to do.... easy to say but hard to do... and if i do ask him and he says that he doesnt like me then wut would i do our friendship might be ruined forever... b
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~*~Naamarie~*~
thanks for the sig Aldaron
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Nov 4th, 2004 02:30 PM |
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airbonic
Ahh! norms!
Gender: Unspecified
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Ok...put yourself in his position.. lets say he came up to you and told you that he had a crush on you and you didnt feel the same way.. will you be put off or will you feel really flatered and good. it sound vain i know...but we as humans LOVE to be loved and when someone expresses intrest in us...Believe me you dont run away...you EMBRACE it...
What im saying is ..if you tell him, even if he says no...he'll do all he can to keep the friendship going simply because he knows that he has someone he can most definitly rely on and someone whos gona keep it real.
Yes?
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Nov 4th, 2004 02:41 PM |
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naamarie
Naamarie
Gender: Female
Location: lothlorien |
ok that sounds good but i just don think that i can... its so hard to say that kind of thing you know?? but this situation is kind of different because we went out before but nothing really happoned it was just kind of like a mutual going out like one of us diddnt ask the other one out it just kind of happened... and then it just like stopped somehow... and now i dono if its the same thing over again or what... and im just scared to say what a feel....
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~*~Naamarie~*~
thanks for the sig Aldaron
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:19 PM |
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Alpha Centauri
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Location: Ground Zero. Account Restricted |
Call him over to a one on one conversation, let him know how you feel without asking him out. Just say you would like to pursue things with him and how does he feel.
It's very hard but building up the courage is worth it. Even if it doesn't go your way you won't be plagued with "What if?".
-AC
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:23 PM |
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you-know-who
She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named
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Location: in hiding waiting for wormtail |
i know but hes like one of my best friends.... wouldnt it be akward for him... and me???
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:38 PM |
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jinXed by JaNx
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Better to just tell him. Than to always wander what could have been. If you dont want to do it blantanly, then just keep dropping little hints, but if he is your friend, and a true friend, then you telling him your feelings shouldnt change things for the worse.
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:43 PM |
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you-know-who
She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named
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yeah... thats me (naamarie) i just signed into my other username...
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:43 PM |
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jinXed by JaNx
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Gender: Male
Location: Pittsburgh |
who?
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:47 PM |
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you-know-who
She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named
Gender: Female
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oo i was just saying that me (you-know-who) just changed my username from naamarie and i just wanted to say tht so u peeps wernt like wtf! so i was just saying...
and i know i should... its easier said then done
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Nov 4th, 2004 03:54 PM |
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Jackie Malfoy
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Location: grounded |
There is a shirt I saw in a catlog that said "LIfe is too short!Live a little" and it always makes me laugh.Even through it is true.I like this idea for a thread.
If I have any promblems I will be sure to come here!JM
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