What is the Point of Love if it is going to Hurt you?

Originally posted by redcaped
PLEASE hear this: Love was meant only for "oneself" loving yourself allows you to keep your way steady, no matter the person you like is good or bad you won't be affected cause you love yourself the most...

This is correct, self love and self respect are required before you can love anyone else.

And the smartest thing to do is "wait" to be loved first. Never Ever Ask, just reply. A wise choice. Keep your ego up to survive in this messy world.

Originally posted by redcaped
And the smartest thing to do is "wait" to be loved first. Never Ever Ask, just reply. A wise choice. Keep your ego up to survive in this messy world.

Nothing risked, nothing gained.

No risks!!! Observe carefully first and know how to describe things. If you see all risky, try nothing! Just be patient for the call.

Originally posted by redcaped
No risks!!! Observe carefully first and know how to describe things. If you see all risky, try nothing! Just be patient for the call.

I respectfully disagree. Life is short, go for life. Do not be foolish and use patients, but don't let life pass you by.

I respectfully disagree-sorry to repeat. Life is Faith and nothing else. Without faith you will fall with risks. Life is been given to you and you are alive right now. Are you daring the future that doesn't even exists, like rushing? The fact is that there is no difference between life&death....you are the same always.

Originally posted by redcaped
No risks!!! Observe carefully first and know how to describe things. If you see all risky, try nothing! Just be patient for the call.

If everyone waited, the who would move?

If your open, you get lots of choices...... 😄

Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
No one likes to be hurt. Physically nor mentality. And you know relationships don't last. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? When there is a high chance that person might hurt your feelings in the future? Do we really have sadistic desires? Are we really beings that enjoy pain? Is that why we fall in love?

Come on you Romantics come here and correct me. 😉

you know that's not true. there are couples that have been married 20, 30, 50, even a couple in some magazine the other day was together 76 years. hell, my parents have been together for 18 years.

Still about 50% of couples will get divorced.

Originally posted by debbiejo
Still about 50% of couples will get divorced.

Or most likely cheat on their partner. That's not love and it can hurt people very deeply.

Yep, like pack your things and leave!

Think less, feel more.
Hurt? Heal. Learn.
Don't live in shadow.
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🍺 Hear hear!!

Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
No one likes to be hurt. Physically nor mentality. And you know relationships don't last. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? When there is a high chance that person might hurt your feelings in the future? Do we really have sadistic desires? Are we really beings that enjoy pain? Is that why we fall in love?

Come on you Romantics come here and correct me. 😉

We want love because it brings happiness. Love can be the greatest feeling the world, but it can also be the worst. There will always be consequences to falling in love....it can leave you vulnerable, it can create immense pain...but we risk this all because we desire happiness. We want to be with that one person who makes our days worth living.

For some Time...

Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
No one likes to be hurt. Physically nor mentality. And you know relationships don't last. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? When there is a high chance that person might hurt your feelings in the future? Do we really have sadistic desires? Are we really beings that enjoy pain? Is that why we fall in love?

Come on you Romantics come here and correct me. 😉

Love and pain are just all part of life~ I believe everything happens for a reason~ I bet you have been scared pretty bad, huh?

Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
No one likes to be hurt. Physically nor mentality. And you know relationships don't last. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? When there is a high chance that person might hurt your feelings in the future? Do we really have sadistic desires? Are we really beings that enjoy pain? Is that why we fall in love?

Come on you Romantics come here and correct me. 😉

Relationships do last, but not all. That's like anything though, isn't it? You could apply that reasoning to most things, but it doesn't mean there's no point doing them.

Sometimes finding love isn't the struggle, keeping it and making it work is the struggle. I've been there, I'm sure we all have. I personally believe that a person is often better off for being in love than for not being in it, in the long run.

-AC

Originally posted by WrathfulDwarf
No one likes to be hurt. Physically nor mentality. And you know relationships don't last. Why struggle to find love and happiness with another person? When there is a high chance that person might hurt your feelings in the future? Do we really have sadistic desires? Are we really beings that enjoy pain? Is that why we fall in love?

Come on you Romantics come here and correct me. 😉

What an obvious thread! Shame on you, mister moderator!

Don't we use love for selfish purposes? Don't we say "I want her/him"? It's a desire most of us share overlord. Is pretty safe to assume that love and pain can't be separated and pain is the price we pay for loving too much?