Originally posted by =Tired Hiker=
Can you actually make a decision to believe in God or not? Like being gay, I don't think people can choose to be gay, bi, or straight, they are what they are.If someone says they choose to believe in God, it seems fallible. How can this be a decision? It is what it is, isn't it?
I'm not sure what you're asking. All that stuff about genetic predispositions and free will aside, sure you can choose, at least as well as you can choose anything, like what color socks to wear today (unless, of course, you have a genetic predisposition to choose black socks more often than white or colored socks).
However, are you asking: "If I choose to believe in God, how does this choice measure up against whether God actually exists or not?" In other words, are you choosing based on proof, or for some other reason?
If you're choosing to believe based on proof, well, empirically speaking there isn't any, nor will there ever be (not for a transempirical entity). That being the case, what other criteria might you adopt for choosing to believe (or not believe)?
Digi brought up Pascal's Wager. The problem with Pascal's Wager is that Pascal himself was a devout Christian. Therefore, however neutrally he tried to frame his wager, he felt that if one chooses not to believe in God, and God exists, you will be in deep doodoo when you die.
I prefer a kinder, gentler version of Pascal's Wager. I start with a neutral premise: No one really knows if God exists. Therefore you might as well at least lean in the direction of "believing" because if theism is wrong (ie, if atheism is right), you'll never know it. Period. (I would also add that if theism is right, and you weren't a believer...so what? I guess I also "believe" in a kinder, gentler God). So what've you got to lose?
Here's what you can gain: If you adopt a transcendent map of reality, one which includes empirical science, then you have a map which is just as reliable as a purely empirical map but with bonus features: a larger explanatory framework; and a tremendous source of strength and healing in times of suffering and loss (studies have repeatedly shown that--all else being equal--people with spiritual perspectives tend to recover better from loss than those who do not believe in a God).
Please understand: I'm not trying to convert you. Currently, from a proof POV, the purely empirical map is very compelling, while the transcendent map is merely intriguing. You have to decide what is important to you in a reality map and proceed from there. IMHO, what is important to you, personally, should be the basis of your choice.
** dismounting the soapbox **