I agree that humans are selfish most of the time... because I am selfish too most of the time without realising it.. but you said that "and there it can never be unselfish".... you used never...
okok... let's put it this way, what if a person never realises the importance of oneself... ;I come from a more tradisional place, and I am exposed to the "unselfish deeds" of the people there, because we "help our neighbour as ourselves", so as to say if one never realises the importance of oneself, then that is hard for him/her to be selfish then can't it?
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No I didn'T say feeling is selfish wanting a certain feeling and doing something to get it is selfish, and I just said there is probably no case where someone does something ot to benefit from it.
I certainly don't believe in freudian instance model..... because I don't believe that if you do something subconsciously, you can still be selfish... because selfish I thought can only be accuired if one is still conscious of the decision....
I think maybe you are right... I still have much more to learn about... still not familiar with subconscious mind part yet... there is no point for me to talk about something I am not familiar about...