Watch the ETM clips again. All of them. It's Trinity that he is in love with, hence the whole comment and discussion between him and Trin in ETM when she says "We need to get you a girlfriend." Niobe is his captain, the relation between them is strictly a trust and camaraderie.
Hell, Ghost even ACTS flustered around Trin - that's the biggest give away.
BTW - it was Persephone who said that, and the Oracle told Ghost that the woman he loved would love another.
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