Anyway I met this girl in a bar once. She told me afte rlike 1 minute she had a boyfriend. I was like I don't care we can still talk. We talk for like a few hours and have some drinks and we're like exchanging phone numbers and stuff. My friend takes a picture and puts it on fb. The day after her boyfriend start stalking me on fb telling me I shoud leave her alone and she's not allowed to talk to me anymore. Like wth. Anyway at first she obeys but we keep bumping in to eachother. So every time we see eachother wa have fun and she complains how possessive he is.
One night we kiss and she decides to dump him. We date for like two weeks but the guy keeps stalking her and trying to convince her. So finally she decides to go back to him. But same thing happens. we keep bumping in to eachother and secretly texting. We kiss on two more occasions. After that she tells me we should stop meetinge achother cause she can't stop thinking about me and dreams about me and stuff.
We don't talk to eachother for like two weeks and now she contacted me saying she can't get me out of her head and wants to dump him again.
What do you guys think. What should I do?
And oh I should add her boyfriend is obsessive about her
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Last edited by Funkadelic on May 12th, 2013 at 12:10 PM
Suggest a weekend away together. You would have the time and the privacy to find out if she's just one of those people who enjoys the attention and drame of her situation (people like this exist and it can be hard to spot it when it's happening to you). As to what you would say when away, that would depend on you and your feelings.
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I understand a lot of people think maybe she just likes the excitement and stuff but to me she really doesn't seem like that kind of person. But then I also wonder maybe I am blind to it cause I like her
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If she's cheating on her boyfriend to be with you, she may cheat on you to be with someone else.
I mean, you already know she's not loyal or trustworthy. Start thinking with your brain and not that other organ, hunker down and decide if you think she'll continue in this pattern. Or...
Take samhain's idea, and use the time to talk honestly about this.
ETA As I'm a girl, I know how girls work. This one sounds insecure. It sounds like she wants to stay with her current boyfriend and she's using you for fantasy. Like - she thinks you're the prince on the white horse in the fairytale - you kiss, you talk, you're sympathetic and empathetic, which, if she's been with her boyfriend for a while, she might not be getting with him. Or she's trying to make him jealous so he'll start producing those things again.
Point - fantasy, although romantic, has no substance. Like a painting. It's just 2-D.
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Last edited by siriuswriter on May 12th, 2013 at 05:08 PM
She sounds like she wants to have it both ways. Do not keep in contact with her. She's indecisive and insecure, if she went back to him that's her problem. Tell her that if she wants to be with you or speak to you that she should completely remove the other guy, if she won't then there is no point in remaining friends.
You should take his advice until you're mature enough to have a down to earth relationship.
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She sounds like a **** for the fact tat she ran back to him after talking bad about him. Since ur the new one its easy for u to leave drama. Tell her to sort out her shit and get real and until than dont start anything. She sounds like the girl from twilight, why have one donk when u can two. Lol go out meet another girl, the feelings u have wil fade away in time.
She's insulted her boyfriend to other guys she's hooked up with - she's probably doing the same to you. Making fun of you to her boyfriend. Why bother?
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but we keep bumping in to eachother. So every time we see eachother wa have fun and she complains how possessive he is. 
May 12th, 2013 12:05 PM
