There is something thats been bugging me lately, and after the discussion I had with someone here at KMC about "sexy" 12 year olds and wading through the last 100 pages of the picture thread there is a question that keeps nagging me.
Why is it you young girls all feel the need to project this "smoldering sexy" look? I have to wonder if some of you know how silly you look to a grown woman? Don't be in a such a bloody hurry to grow up, enjoy your teen-aged years for goodness sakes.
I was driving the cheerleaders I coach home from the game last Friday and they were talking about getting "pearl necklaces". I was mortified. And what is this about oral sex isnt considered sex? It IS sex period. I really dont understand this need to look like a sexpot at 12, 13, 14 ,15 or even 16. There girls were also talking about a girl who had gotten drunk at a party and was a little more than free with herself and woke in a bathtub and a bunch of guys at the party had pissed on her.
I just dont get it. I guess I always had a higher opinion of myself in high school than to behave this way.
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Are you talking about your daughters? Why in god's name would you allow them to cheer if you are concerned about dressing too sexy, etc...? The Cheerleaders are notorious...
I hope noone on here is 12, because noone under 12 is allowed to be registared on here.
But I do see what you're talking about. I was never attracted to that kinda thing when i was 12, 13, 14, or even 15. I was a little geek, i loved drawing and writing little poetry and sticking pieces of paper in a book and devoting it to bnch of cute guys and such.
However, we're not all the same, you might see the wrongness of this behaiviour, and I might do, but unfortunately not everyone does.
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it is ridicluous, but the media perpetuate this image and these girls are not mature enough to think for themselves so they follow the trends. they should act their age.
I notice you are talking about girls. Nobody complains as loud if a young teenage guy gets laid or dresses/acts older than he is. Why is that do you think?
OK get REAL Zero how many teenaged guys do you know go around dressed like streetwalkers? Seriously? And for that matter how many of them do you see posting pics on a website all splayed out on a bed trying to look seductive?
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They dont have to dress ''slutty'' or ''seductive'' but they can act older and get laid at any age and its not a tragedy. Yet when a girl does it, it is.
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It sure is appaling, but no one seems to care as much when guys do it, or so it seems.
When a guy sleeps with many women hes a ''stud'' a ''pimp'' but when a girl does it, shes a ''whore'' and is ''not respecting herself''
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you're absolutely right, it is bullsh!t.
I agree with what you're saying though. When i was in 6th grade...ummm...i think i was like 13. that year i was 12 turning 13. There was one girl who gave head to a guy from another school, and she told everyone about it. She became the cool girl at school, and within a matter of weeks, i heard stories about 3 other girls doing it.
It seemed like they didn't do it to express their love, it seemed like they did it to be cool.
I'm not complaining though, because i got it when i was 14.
I was the same way Even now, at age 18, I still dress pretty conservatively and I rarely wear makeup, and I SURE as hell never acted like how you were saying your cheerleaders were, JP. But it's really sad how all these little girls are acting like this. Last Friday I was at my old high school's homecoming football game with a bunch of my friends, and we saw a whole ton of girls, who could be no older than 12 years old, wearing more makeup than I wear in a month. And the REALLY sad thing is how their parents LET them go out like this! My mother never let me wear makeup when I was 12. Then again, when I was 12 dressing and looking and acting like a whore wasn't 'popular'.
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Teenaged girls and the smoldering look etc...
And what is this about oral sex isnt considered sex? It IS sex period. I really dont understand this need to look like a sexpot at 12, 13, 14 ,15 or even 16. There girls were also talking about a girl who had gotten drunk at a party and was a little more than free with herself and woke in a bathtub and a bunch of guys at the party had pissed on her. 
Oct 7th, 2004 05:12 PM
I fixed it. And actually my squad isnt allowed to dress like hoochie mammas I approved the uniform 
Even now, at age 18, I still dress pretty conservatively and I rarely wear makeup, and I SURE as hell never acted like how you were saying your cheerleaders were, JP. But it's really sad how all these little girls are acting like this. Last Friday I was at my old high school's homecoming football game with a bunch of my friends, and we saw a whole ton of girls, who could be no older than 12 years old, wearing more makeup than I wear in a month. And the REALLY sad thing is how their parents LET them go out like this! My mother never let me wear makeup when I was 12. Then again, when I was 12 dressing and looking and acting like a whore wasn't 'popular'.
