I used the ignoring thing as a way for you to know which I was on about
And I didn't just wanna talk to her Oooooh, no
Damn right I had competition But that's a completely different story....
But this other girl... she was just one of those truly exceptional people that you meet on really rare occasions. Y'know - smart, friendly, ****in attractive... but I didn't like her in the way you're probably thinking.
well, then there is still no problem. If she takes the efford to write a mail it means something, she could as well have waited for the next time you two met on msn
I still don't get it... if it's about beauty... you always look at it, you're human
cause they are no match for you?
so why complicate things with her if you're after the other?
I'd never talken to her on MSN... it automatically signs her in as "away", so I'm guessing it's completely forked! But yeah, i appreciate the e-mail of course, and hopefully she'll get her damn MSN fixed soon Failing that, I'll just get her number and safe a lot of time
And I'm just kidding yers... but it's not all about beauty, of course. But I just wanted to point out I'm not a completely shallow pig
As for the competition... I'm not too sure where I stood, to be honest. Ultimately it was me and one of my friends, but by the end of the week he had given up, so it was just me, really. I kinda felt like shit, though, cos I left all my (guy) friends to have dinner with her and her girlfriend, and when we'd all finished I left her to go back to her room, and I went and sat with my boys. They were all talking about hooking up Josh (my "rival") with her... so that was a bit awkward
Before we go in, I feel it'll be a lot easier if we use names:
Kaye is the Blonde mathematician.
Gloria is the other girl I'm about to discuss.
Now, I don't want to talk to Gloria for the same reasons as Kaye Gloria, quite simply, made the week perfect. She was an innocent flirt, and I'm still not entirely sure why I don't fancy her But I suppose I just want to thank her, and tell her what a great person she is, and such
why? like, you're afraid to talk to her or is it a principle thing of you never to talk first? and it just means she has MSN 7 where you can set it automaticly, doesn't mean she's away or it's malfunctioning but yeah, phoning her is better, it's more personal than just bits and bytes
people keep saying that, but in all honesty it's a bit of bull. In the end beauty fades, yes but that doesn't mean you have to stay with a witch
were your friends joking? did they know about your interest? It could just be that they were teasing to make you feel awkward and anyway the guy didn't persue it so he's off... one less to worry about
why don't you simply stay friends? like, hang out together, talk, have a dance or something... don't think that would be a problem and you can have a great talk with her too
Noooo no no nononononooooooooo! Oh god no yers, I've given you the COMPLETELY wrong message with that! What I meant was, I've attempted to talk to her, but she's never answered because of her MSN. And it's not MSN 7 - it waits a few seconds before changing the settings... MSN 7 does it automatically (there's a short delay, according to my event logs). So, given that, it would be a lot easier if we just swap numbers... run up a nice phone bill this month.
And yes! That's exactly what I was trying to tell Trace! I liked her for what she was... and part of what she is, is her looks.
Quite frankly, everyone had an interest in her to some extent. It was just a matter of who would actually try it on with her - so there was no point in breaking friendships over that. Of course, I knew his interest in her from day one, so it would also be kinda hipocritical of me, since I was after her knowing her liked her, too If that makes any sense?
One of the main problems is that everyone I met came from across the UK - making it awkward and time consuming to meet up with them. It'll be even harder to arrange a group meeting....
And the trouble with us staying friends, is that I'm gonna have to find some damn way to contact her first
we could do that though, but it's too late and my brain is switched off now
but then what is the problem? since you swapped it means she wants to talk and clearly MSN isn't working... only thing you can do is either move in with eachother or get the phonenumbers swapped. Besides, that will already give you a closer connection with eachother before that school starts and then it'll be easier to end up sitting together or what ever...
ow ow ow dave! I don't know how the ladies are over there but you're getting on thin ice there now, cause you could have made it sound like you were just "milking the cow without buying her"; you should if she understood it like that make sure that you stress that she's clever and such too
yeah but the reasoning is off... if everyone likes her, than in the end one has to break through and go after her or will y'all just sit there being miserable cause they let a great girl go? be happy if someone manages to become her GF, and double if it's you and considering what you have told, it'll be you since the others don't bother. Their loss. Nothing wrong with healthy rivalry anyway; just as long as you stay friends with eachother
well, if y'all go to that school, you meet up there, otherwise you just have to arrange a day somewhere in august, which is still plenty of time to get things done. You all are adults now so you don't have to ask mommy an daddy permission or something, besides I'm sure that they would love to meet up again especially if there's drinks and entertainment.
you have her email... that's the first step (and only) you can take for now... say that you wanna talk to her but that msn isn't working? the truth always works