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Originally posted by leonheartmm
what if she totally hates you{not hate-hate. just anger/on the surface justified hate due to misunderstanding} n you decidedly DONT wanna forget her?{n still no suicide}

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Originally posted by leonheartmm
yea. practically everybody has em. whats it like for u. do u get over em/ if so how and how longdoes it take?

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Originally posted by inimalist
If both of these things are true, it would mean that almost half of your total life, and all of mature life, has been spent in a feeling of self loathing.

It may serve you better to explore why you hate yourself rather than why others hate you.

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Originally posted by leonheartmm
thoughtful, but not really. i mean there was self loathing when i was younger and immature{loong tim since then}. not anymore. i dont hate myself, the problem is missing/not being able to be with the other person. others dont really hate me at all. its just specifically one person who got the wrong impression for one mistaken reason or another. im generally a very likeable guy albeit eccentric.

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Originally posted by inimalist
haha, thats good then

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Originally posted by leonheartmm
not really. . not at all. atleast self pitying emo ishness gives u sumthing to fall back on, "self pity"

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Originally posted by inimalist
oh man

theories of similarity in attraction and the perception of ones partner in a romantic relationship make women wet

nothing puts them in the mood like computer models of attractedness

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Originally posted by inimalist
hardly

self pity is so damaging, if for no other reason than it destroys ones motivation to better their own situation. When you feel like you are worthless you will begin to act that way.

If you can keep the targets and causes of your emotions straight, you are way better off. While it might be miserable to have to live with the idea that someone doesn't like you for no real reason, at least you aren't tearing yourself apart because "there must be something wrong with you to make them not want to be with you".

Honestly, harder to cope with, way more mentally healthy

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Originally posted by ~Forever*Alone~
The man i loved died, and now i cant go on...

will i see him again if i die?

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Originally posted by Adam_PoE
Perhaps you should kill yourself, and find out. "[You] can't go on" after all.

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Originally posted by ~Forever*Alone~
i think i will....

i tried to think of all the things i hated about him, but i couldnt think of any...

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Originally posted by leonheartmm
a very wise friend of mine said "people who arent good at finding their way in this world would be likely, just as bad at finding their way in the next one", looks like ur lost. i think u need to get urself together and give up this suicide thing, lest u wanna end up some mean ghost in this world, unable to pass to where your lover is n not being able to live in this one either. . death comes when it comes, n then ull be able to meet whoever. no use trying now.

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Originally posted by ~Forever*Alone~
thank you for pretending to care.

sometimes i have bad days and then i have really bad days, so these really bad days have passed, for now...

i think someone is actually trying to help me, but i cant tell...