Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Q'Anilia
What ?
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:27 AM
Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Wei Phoenix
Run away Demon, she's not the faithful type.
It's called a triangle relshonship,check it up.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:28 AM
Q'Anilia
Exiled Master Jedi
Gender: Female Location: Coruscant
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Cammii
What ?
Funny, I have the same question in mind
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:28 AM
Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
People do have a boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time, it's not unfaithful both know, Triangle relshonship very commen in my area.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:32 AM
Q'Anilia
Exiled Master Jedi
Gender: Female Location: Coruscant
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Cammii
It's called a triangle relshonship,check it up.
No, actually it is called a "Love Triangle" if we want to use correct terms If that is the case with that character, I don't like her. I hate Polyamory. I can't see it as love.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:33 AM
Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
Ok then, You don't half to like her,feel/think the way you do want, but to save the problems don't say anything.We can all think differnt need to voice it to start a arguement.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:36 AM
Wei Phoenix
One-Eyed Dragon Of Oshu
Gender: Unspecified Location: Southern Cross
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Cammii
It's called a triangle relshonship,check it up.
I did.
quote: Triangles
A triangle is a three-person relationship system. It is considered the building block or "molecule" of larger emotional systems because a triangle is the smallest stable relationship system. A two-person system is unstable because it tolerates little tension before involving a third person. A triangle can contain much more tension without involving another person because the tension can shift around three relationships. If the tension is too high for one triangle to contain, it spreads to a series of "interlocking" triangles.
Spreading the tension can stabilize a system, but nothing gets resolved. People's actions in a triangle reflect their efforts to ensure their emotional attachments to important others, their reactions to too much intensity in the attachments, and their taking sides in the conflicts of others.
Paradoxically, a triangle is more stable than a dyad, but a triangle creates an "odd man out," which is a very difficult position for individuals to tolerate. Anxiety generated by anticipating or being the odd one out is a potent force in triangles. The patterns in a triangle change with increasing tension. In calm periods, two people are comfortably close "insiders" and the third person is an uncomfortable "outsider." The insiders actively exclude the outsider and the outsider works to get closer to one of them.
Someone is always uncomfortable in a triangle and pushing for change. The insiders solidify their bond by choosing each other in preference to the less desirable outsider. Someone choosing another person over oneself arouses particularly intense feelings of rejection. If mild to moderate tension develops between the insiders, the most uncomfortable one will move closer to the outsider. One of the original insiders now becomes the new outsider and the original outsider is now an insider. The new outsider will make predictable moves to restore closeness with one of the insiders.
At moderate levels of tension, triangles usually have one side in conflict and two sides in harmony. The conflict is not inherent in the relationship in which it exists but reflects the overall functioning of the triangle. At a high level of tension, the outside position becomes the most desirable. If severe conflict erupts between the insiders, one insider opts for the outside position by getting the current outsider fighting with the other insider. If the maneuvering insider is successful, he gains the more comfortable position of watching the other two people fight. When the tension and conflict subside, the outsider will try to regain an inside position.
Triangles contribute significantly to the development of clinical problems. Getting pushed from an inside to an outside position can trigger a depression or perhaps even a physical illness. Two parents intensely focusing on what is wrong with a child can trigger serious rebellion in the child.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:38 AM
Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
Alright nice to know, now drop it.Thank you.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:40 AM
Q'Anilia
Exiled Master Jedi
Gender: Female Location: Coruscant
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Cammii
Ok then, You don't half to like her,feel/think the way you do want, but to save the problems don't say anything.We can all think differnt need to voice it to start a arguement.
I didn't have any intentions to start an argument I was curious, and I still am. What do you like so much about Love Triangles?
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:44 AM
Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
Oh,I took it the wrong way.Sorry.
I don't get into many Love Triangles I am open minded.Anyway i like them because of how i can love two people at once and they can both love each other. I believe the heart can love more than once, We all fall in and out of love pretty easy.
But mainly i stick to Females,males make me sick.
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:49 AM
Wei Phoenix
One-Eyed Dragon Of Oshu
Gender: Unspecified Location: Southern Cross
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Q'Anilia
I didn't have any intentions to start an argument I was curious, and I still am. What do you like so much about Love Triangles?
You Finnish liar!
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Nov 23rd, 2009 02:53 AM
JohnnyW
Heart of the Red Army
Gender: Male Location: Stalingrad
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Wei Phoenix
I did.
Owned
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Nov 23rd, 2009 10:03 PM
Super Marie 64
Queen of Feuds
Gender: Female Location: At home, wishing
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Cammii
males make me sick
Sucks to be pregnant then. I wish you the best of luck. You will for sure need it
Is this a recent discovery?
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Nov 24th, 2009 01:00 AM
Cammii
You'll be the death of me
Gender: Female Location:
Thank you hun.
No i have known for three months.
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Nov 24th, 2009 01:50 AM
Hitosu Moriko
The Aura Manipulator
Gender: Male Location: Everywhere yet Nowhere
What i do
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Nov 24th, 2009 04:16 AM
Rapidash
Gender: Female Location:
This thread shriek maturity Open for registration?
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Nov 25th, 2009 02:03 PM
JohnnyW
Heart of the Red Army
Gender: Male Location: Stalingrad
I believe that it should be just between two people so that no one is ever left out in the cold.
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Nov 25th, 2009 06:18 PM
Hitosu Moriko
The Aura Manipulator
Gender: Male Location: Everywhere yet Nowhere
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Leytenánt Book
I believe that it should be just between two people so that no one is ever left out in the cold.
i agree thats bullcrap that you can be happy with 3 woman
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Nov 25th, 2009 07:09 PM
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