well, to be fair, there is a reason why AA and NA have a relapse rate of something like 80%. sponsors help, I'm sure, but in most cases won't keep someone away from their addictions.
That part makes sense. As mentioned, people only change if they want to. The sponsor is only there to help facilitate that if the person is willing to make the change in him or herself. I was just saying that if they can't connect then there's something wrong to begin with.
Not a bad genre. It takes away the intimidatory nature of a male being present and allows for dually-feministic imagery to be presented. Basically, it allows the viewer to have some cake and eat it too.
And, yes, I just pretended some niche porn was like a fine book written in the romantic period.
As accurate as it may be I've always found AA style "once an addict always an addict" talk to be rather disturbing. It feels like they're trying to force dependency on the program.
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Graffiti outside Latin class.
Sed quis custodiet ipsos custodes?
A juvenal prank.
__________________ Red lights flicker madly, a siren rings and jolts are shaking the bridge as I run desperately towards the nearest escape pod. The escape bay is already on fire. I see dead or injured or dying people everywhere. The other commanding officers and myself are abandoning the crew and passengers to certain death. As my pod glides slowly in the field of stars, I can see the Hive-Ship becoming smaller and smaller, ripped apart by the deadly laser beams of the Ancients' battlecruisers. The battle for the Arc is lost. I failed, and I'm watching the death of one billion of my own kind, when the Hive is finally destroyed in a blinding, silent explosion.
And isn't their ultimate belief that the only way you can overcome your addiction is to accept Jesus Christ as your savior?
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"End when I find myn Hertland, efter Irfet end Woo,
In Dale af Paper, worin Ink Nymphen dans’n,
I’ll endly have somthing stour ta gib ta myn Fremdin.
O Vers’ af de Musen, dwan’t ferlet me noo!"
what if u have a sex addiction? what then?
I once went on a date had sex then because it wasn't good enough that same evening I met up with someone else and had sex again.. what would you tell a person who has a sex addiction to help that person?
Hey, I don't run AA or anything, just answering the question. As to yours though, the only way that's going to change is if you want it to and if you're willing to open up to someone who can help you. Your best bet would be a practicing sex therapist, possibly one that you can meet with both one on one and in a group setting so that you'll have accountability and so that you can talk with other people who are trying to change as well. While it's possible to do it on your own it's very hard to be completely honest with yourself and most people who succeed do so because they have others to help support them and call them on their crap
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