Also, I can think of arguments against my position, as well.
I wouldn't necessarily say "older" both young men and women (minors). More like they want to bang attractive people and men are most attractive, according to data we've collected (and verified over multiple studies), at 32. So, yeah, you could make an argument with the research that it's natural for young women (minors) to want to get with post college age men. But that might be biology looking for a hunter and gatherer who has resources and peak health - not a modern day situation.
Men are far easier to predict: we find 22-25 year old women most attractive at almost all ages and that's hilarious to me. Prime-baby-making. Men are rather simplistic.
"Me see hot woman. ugh, baby make. WEEE!" <- every caveman brain
But that's not how power dynamics work. Talk to young women and women about their dating experiences and having to deal with anger from men. You might change your mind. Saying "no" isn't as easy as a decision for young women as it is for young men from a physical security (external locus of control) perspective.
This is obvious and no one disagrees with this point. We are not talking about the same thing.
We are both in the same boat because I used 'us' in that. So if I put us both in the same boat, you can probably be sure I wasn't being a prick.
If I explain it to you, then it could seem like I'm patronizing you. But I'll explain it anyway because you took the wrong interpretation away:
This is an uncomfortable topic and professionals who do this for living are far better equipped to discuss this topic. We are not and probably should not be comfortable with this topic as we are laymen. If we were comfortable with the topic, we'd either be mental health professionals or creeps.
Other than the misunderstanding about "uncomfortable", this was an enjoyable conversation.
Have you ever said 'no' to a woman? Some of them can become incredulous, I know men do the same thing but that side of it is well known, never really seen anyone talk about how some women can't handle being turned down for sex. And I'm talking about women who would consider themselves feminist and liberal throwing out comments like; 'I can't believe I had to ask you twice to come back to my place!' or a rage filled 'What are you, some kind of ***?' Then they get even madder when you point out their hypocrisy so in all honesty you're better off just having sex with them.
__________________ Then lets head down into that cellar and carve ourselves a witch
Very bizarre case - the sons of Finnish-Canadian fashion magnate Peter Nygard are attempting to sue their father in court, claiming he sent his girlfriend (apparently a sex worker) to rape them while in their teens!
I've heard about this. This is a "thing" among the wealthy. They'd hire an expensive escort to help their sons lose their virginity.
It's an idea rooted in machismo culture. Kind of lame. It's the "become a man" bullshit. Why can't they do it like the Jews and just hold a bar mitzvah or something? Wait, cost...maybe that's why. lol Cheap rich bastards...
Yeah he did. Then he came back to England to make a few stand up and I think that's when he made his adult pantos, which, I'll be honest. They're pretty decent.
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Never really a fan not even in his late 70's, early eighties heyday. One or two jokes are funny, but up the elephant and round the castle, chalky etc... long past the sell by.
When it comes to adult females and teen males I think it's less about them being physically vulnerable and more about being emotionally vulnerable.
In the right setting yes a woman could physically rape a dude. I've heard of cases where the guy was drunk and was able to be raped.
__________________ Chicken Boo, what's the matter with you? You don't act like the other chickens do. You wear a disguise to look like human guys, but you're not a man you're a Chicken Boo.
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