I was trying to find the story of the parent who kissed their kid's murderer's hand, but you can never find these things when you're trying to find them.
Also no he doesn't. Masking it and actually enjoying having your bones broken are two different things. Out of the 11 breaks I've had, I've laughed off 8 of them and walked on everyone of them besides my femur when I was 5-ish. The 3 I didn't laugh off were when I was 10 and under.
None of those were something I was happier that they happened than the opposite. Broken bones hurt and you can make jokes and laugh about it. It doesn't mean you actually look forward to it
If you think Joker would rather have his arm snapped in half than perfectly fine, then you're lying to yourself. No matter how little you think it will do, hurting someone does what it implies.
You're telling me Joker would have a fun time if Void snapped his shit up like he did Hulk?
I refuse to believe that he internally would enjoy that. Him taunting heroes and pretending he wins because they went "too far" is not the same as his inner thoughts going "Boy I sure do love all this sharp intense pain and not being able to move. I should have snapped my arm and all my other bones in half on my own time."
I don't think snapping his bones torture at least to him. at least not immediately maybe after months of not being able to do anything. joker has to be broken/fixed mentally for physical tortures.
joker is the type to live in the crazy of his own head so snapping bones could be something he laughed off and plotted around even if it took forever.
Joker is nothing like rl, lol. His super sanity, physiology or even gadgets... you won't see anything like that irl.
Crippling him is still a good idea, imo. Without arms, legs, eyes, tongue and so on... he's not going to "play" with anyone. And that is going to be a torture of sorts for him, similar how when he found out that Batman quit in TDKR.
Never let anyone else define you. Don't be a jerk just to be a jerk, but if you are expressing your true inner feelings and beliefs, or at least trying to express that inner child, and everyone gets pissed off about it, never NEVER apologize for it. Let them think what they want, let them define you in their narrow little minds while they suppress every last piece of them just to keep a friend that never liked them for themselves in the first place.
Chain him down in the desert on a hot day with a magnifying glass set up on a mount that makes small gradual movements above his pr#/ck and balls so they are gradually burnt away. Release hungy dingoes into the area once hes endured that for a few days (while still alive) so he could feel being eaten alive.