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For the record I understand what the thread is about I'm just asking where your fascination with incels comes from. If you don't want to answer just say so.
yes it is definitely relevant, it wasn't my intention to drag him over it. Just seems really lopsided and incomplete, blaming it all on women; especially since men often aim way out of their league as well, and stay alone because of it.
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Unless you are extremely good looking, successful or have a great and charming natural personality (like I do), it can take a lot of work and effort to get to a point where you are comfortable talking to women, and usually, this also goes with many failures. It can be a scary thing if you're not used to it, no one likes failure, but you have to just push on and keep trying, like anything.
I think the biggest problem is that a lot of these people don't really want to put out the effort to learn or improve themselves in any meaningful way. It's easier for them to just sit there and vaguely blame women for not flocking to them for being "nice guys" while they sit behind their keyboards eating Cheetos than it is to actually go out and talk to women, get rejected, learn from that rejection, and talk to others until you find one you mesh with. People are used to instant gratification in today's world, and a good woman will not give you instant gratification. It's ironic because we now live in a world of Tinder/Bumble and other free services that will essentially match you up with a date without even leaving your house, but like in real life, on these, it takes a great deal of effort and time, and honestly a little luck.
I think your last point is too simplistic and doesn't give women enough credit. They are no different than men, they want the best they can get. The key is to make a woman think you are that, even if by most metrics, you are not. If you act confident and successful, and are able to make her laugh, that's 90% of what you need to do in order to get your foot in the door. Honestly, I find women to be much less superficial than men when it comes to who they date. I see extremely attractive and beautiful women with guys who are overweight, short, bald, or just overall not very good looking, which should be great news for these guys who can't get laid. It means the problem probably isn't their looks, but their personality or the effort they are willing to put out, or their cowardice.
This doesn’t bother me. It doesn’t even register on important matters, all things considered. So what if they’re not having as much sex? Good in them for knowing restraint on not contributing to overpopulation.
He can answer for himself, but I can already tell you how he will respond. He'll feign ignorance and act like he has a legit concern over this. I guarantee it.
Only question is if you fall for it, but then again to do so you'd need to flat out ignore the sheer number of incel threads these sad souls make.
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The topic is involuntary celibacy. (Involuntary is when you have no choice. JFC)
really?
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Maybe if I make a million threads about Trump, and 20+ sock accounts a year the ladies will love me
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Online dating sucks. Almost all the women are liars. They are almost all fat or take overwhelmingly flattering pictures. Every now and then, you find a great one, though.
I can't see the size of the sample group, who carried the study out, nature of selection etc. For data to be worth anything, it needs those. Otherwise, it's just h1a8 maths. It doesnt rven say wjo carried out the research.
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