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just wondering....and why or why not?

yeah sure, im not scared of ghosts, i wish i could see one.

Sure, even for a dollar. It would be really cold!!

Sure...but it's kinda disrespectful to the person buried there.

Oh I don't nessarily think so...all depends on now you approach it really.. in a way it's almost like visiting....in that you acknowledge someone one is there..

Now doing things like having sex on a grave...or pissing on a grave..that's bad.

Hell yeah.

Sinners suck.

idunno...for all we know someone is buried in our backyard or even under out beds.

uh...forget I said that.

Ok, I will.

Hoffa is buried somewhere.

Yeah, I'd lay on a grave at night, if I was real tired.

Who's Hoffa?

Jimmy Hoffa. He was a big wig in the union uprising. He disapeared. (obviously killed).

Oh, cool.

Union uprising?

This was back when workers were forming unions. He was a big voice.

Oh.

See? You learned something tonight.

So what does this have to do with necrophilia?

Is that a facsination with death?

erotic facsination, mostly having sex with dead people.

Death is stupid, just asks my grandma in her big house all alone (both of my grandmas)

Uhhhhh. .. what?

I agree with Rex here it is VERY DISRESPECTFUL to the one buried and his/hers kin. No matter what purpose it would serve it is nothing but disrespectful.
If someone spent the night at my parents grave I would made sure those who did that got a permanent address at the cemetery

I sleep in a cript.

yea

What about Day of the Dead?...some people do spend the day in the graveyard...the whole point is to be with the dead.

idd, still think it's a silly idea

at the grave yard yes but they dont spend the day on the grave

What about walking on a grave?

yea sure, I would do it

disrespectfull, you walk around it

You have respect????????????

I don't care
and I wouldn't care if someone walked on my grave: ooh wait I won't have one

I'll piss on yours.

Well, I know I've walked on graves..and not doing so to show disrespect. My family's grave yards arn't the most organized places.

And... any people down stairs pounding with their broomstick to the ceiling?

ooh scary queeq very scary, u first have to find it and since I'll be burned when I die I dare you to find my grave

Then I'll piss on your scattered ashes.

I'll show you were it is, queeq

You're a pal!

you're welcome
*starts preparing plans*

There aren't many graveyards where I live (about 10 miles+). But if I was in a graveyard, I would probably try to avoid stepping on a grave - nevermind sleeping on one.

But I guess each to their own. Although I would have to say that I would be offended if someone did that to someone I know.

No, I would not

It's not like the one in the ground would notice or feel it...

exactly...

but the one who is not underground is the offended ones, to put it this way.
Graves in Norway have a bed of flowers and other plants on it, anyone who lay on the grave would break the flowers/plants and mess up the bed.

and the ones that will probably beat you..

beat you, well if they are nice they leave it with that

isn't this religiously inspired finti

why is it religious, dont have to be religious to have respect for the dead

J-O-K-E
joke

passed my spelling

do I dare read this entire thread?

and I asked you a question

keo: no

photographic memory, didn't saw a question mark

you dont have no memory

hey! labresults were inconclusive!

so are your stiches

I have stiches?

around your head

*starts to sing*
around the world, around the world, around the world, around the world, around the world, around the world, around the world, around the world

that's a great song

didn't made it though

Has anyone seen my pebble? I was playing hopscotch on these graves here and I seemed to have misplaced it...

So Dim,

Have you every been in a grave yard and lay on a grave?

I wouldn't have a problem with people running on me when I'm dead.
I plan to but next inscription on my grave:
'Opgepast! Hier waak ik!'
don't know the exact translation in english but it's like
"Attention! I bite"

I thought it would be more like 'Geen pasen dit jaar'

to quote Homer:

"Don't hassle the dead, boy. They have eerie powers!"

Their feeble powers are no match for mine.

creepy!
who in their right mind would lay on a grave any way?

sick people

maybe necrophiliacs?

no, they'd dig down to the grave

or maybe they'd just wait for the corpse to break through the top soil?

and then ask them out on a date?

could that really happen? *shakes head* I think not!

what about graves for cremated

? huh?

no chance of necrophilia there

erm! no!

.

think

was there really any point in that reply?

no...wrote something..edited it after you edited yours!

*smiles dumbly*

why smile

coz I'm a happy person! why?

forgett it you I obvious shoot FAR above your head

ok! *bemused w/ puzzlement!*

i guess

guess what?

I don't know. Maybe people get hot by rubbing human ashes all over their naked bodies.

must be a dutch thing

of course, well I guess thats just queeq all over!

Well I guess that's just ashes all over Queeq.

Not really, just trying to be sympathetic with the grave freaks.

By rubbing ashes on yourself????....weirdo.

Who said I DID that?

no one!

you DO it, not DID it

to answer the question, i would NOT lay on a grave at night, first off it freaks me out, and secondit shows a lot of disrespect for the person AND their family

its not disrespectful, as long as you dont piss on the grave or dig up the corpse and lay inside the coffin with him.

to lay one someones grave is disrespectful no matter how much someone claims it aint.

its disrespectful under any means. full stop!

When my ex-husband was 19 his dad was killed by a drunk driver and he kind of had a flip out period...at one point laying on the grave after he had gotten drunk (and he was already on anti-depressents so I'm sure that had something to do with it..) Apparently he laid there for a couple of hours before some friends found him and took him home.

that is more out of grief, than doing it as a stunt and at least it was his kin too. You are allowed to miss your loved ones, but spend a night at a grave for I dare you stuff that is totally different

yea...thats VERY different..

oh, btw...
I wouldn't care less if someone did that on my grave or on one of a familymember

well, most people would care

well then that's most ppl's problem

hey, if you are talking about falling asleep on a grave, my answer will be: HELL no, thats disrespectfull!

and the last worldwide poll about this was taken when?

i wo uldnt care if someone laid on my grave. it would be cool.

of course you don't care! you can't feel anything

good point

it is not just about the dead ones it is about those left behind too

and if they found out, you weren't good enough to hide it

i wouldnt care if someone lied on a family members grave. id be glad someone could get some joy out of it.

or someone finally visiting

no. I agree with finti, sab and others. it is, and most people would find it, disrespectful if someone lay on the grave of a relative or friend, for entertainment.

and how will you know?

using general logic thinking

so, if a friend of yours say he's going to the church, you're alerted and follow him?

they will mess up the flower bed

oh you meant like that, yerss, misunderstood you. you'll see if someones been on it, as finti said, and that wouldnt be a nice view. I'm sure most people would be a little pissed of for something like that.

... ...(cough)... ... ..... ......... ...(cough, cough)...

caught a cold?

I guess you could say that other wise I couldnt think of anything appropriate to post in this thread.

well, could be a cat

and perhaps someone already does it now and you don't notice

thats irrelevant. the point is, if I notice it I wouldnt like it at all

it's not irrelevant, it COULD be a cat. Someone has something about a cat on a grave?
and how much do you visit the graves?

LOST O' SO VERY LOST!

that's still irrelevant. no matter how often/seldom you visit the grave, if you DO notice someones been up to no good on it, most Would get pissed

YEH! *chants* go mah, go mah, go mah, go mah!

if you visit it once a year, it's stupid you go complaining
spend more time there first before you go nagging

WHHHHHHHHHHHHHHAT? I*d SURE AS HELL complain if I noticed someone had been on a grave for someone I knew well, no matter how long it had been since I last was there

you can remember someone by heart or by grave. If you remember him by heart, and you don't visit his grave regulary it's stupid to complain. It's not because you bought that small piece of land you are king of it

of course it still doesnt expell the fact that its disrespectful, a grave is a final resting place it should be left undisurbed!

you're trippin yerss. if a stranger, just for fun, lay on the place where a dead friend or relative lies, which is ther to remember him/her, it is TOTALLY respectless, and it would NOT be stupid to be upset about it. that is simply the WORST thing I've heard today

some don't go to a graveyard because they just don't like the place at all

and what has that got to do with anything?

they will never know

hey! guys, I think its time for a truce... noe kiss and make up!

...no

mah! that hurts

we're just discussing on a friendly base, not like other people tend to discuss

not necessary that last comment.

anyways, so I won this debate its disrespectful to lay on a grave.

who said you won? For you it's perhaps disrespectful yeah

if you had any common decency then it will be disrespectful, we should put this thread in its grave

I agree with finti, for once!

for you it's a question of decency yes, not for me or in this case FM either

Wow... it's still on topic. I'm impressed.