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Les yeux clos
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Worried Question..

If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth... confused

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honesty is the best policy ..

its better to hurt someone with the truth ...


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what did you lie about?


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Re: Question..

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Originally posted by Fionnuala
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth... confused


Yes....tell the truth...


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Originally posted by CURIOUS22
what did you lie about?
I made something up based on truth...sad

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Your desision...

Just show them the thread to help them understand how hard it was to decide if you tell them the truth


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Better to hurt someone with the truth than have them hurt even worse later when they find out the lie.

Talk to them.

I'm sure they wont be pleased about you lying to them, but it will be better than if they found out the truth later.


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Your desision...

Just show them the thread to help them understand how hard it was to decide if you tell them the truth
It's not someone on here..it's in real life which makes it harder erm
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Originally posted by carnival_junkie
Better to hurt someone with the truth than have them hurt even worse later when they find out the lie.

Talk to them.

I'm sure they wont be pleased about you lying to them, but it will be better than if they found out the truth later.
Thanks..that's good advice....I've written it in an email so I'm trying to get the courage to send it...confused

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tell them the truth. its better than carrying the weight of guilt on your shoulders.. and itll hurt the person, but itll also mean alot to them to know you had the balls to tell them the truth

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Yes, tell the truth, much better then acting like it never happened.


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quote: (post)
Originally posted by Fionnuala
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth... confused

secrets are nice but you started this thread so obviously somethings up

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Originally posted by Oiram62205
secrets are nice but you started this thread so obviously somethings up
I can't stand lying to anyone...I always feel guilty and confess staright away....but this time it's so big.....

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the truth...its the only way. if they find our later and you didnt tell them it will cause worse pain and more problems.


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may i ask what the lie is? i may be able to help you tell it to them in the best way.


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Originally posted by Fionnuala
Thanks..that's good advice....I've written it in an email so I'm trying to get the courage to send it...confused


email isnt always the best choice, but whatever makes it so that you can break the news to them.

good luck, sweetie.


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Re: Question..

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Originally posted by Fionnuala
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth... confused


Tell them, because they WILL find out and it will be about 100x worse than if you had just told them


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Les yeux clos
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quote: (post)
Originally posted by CURIOUS22
may i ask what the lie is? i may be able to help you tell it to them in the best way.
Sorry..it's kind of personal...
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Originally posted by carnival_junkie
email isnt always the best choice, but whatever makes it so that you can break the news to them.

good luck, sweetie.
Probably not...but I'm not brave enough to do it any other way

Thank you...

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quote: (post)
Originally posted by Fionnuala
I can't stand lying to anyone...I always feel guilty and confess staright away....but this time it's so big.....

whats is done in the dark will always come to light

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it will be ok....everything always works out for the best......the guilt isnt worht it.....trust me. and if they cant forgive you....maybe it wasnt meant to be. y aknow?


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quote: (post)
Originally posted by Oiram62205
whats is done in the dark will always come to light
I know..
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Originally posted by CURIOUS22
it will be ok....everything always works out for the best......the guilt isnt worht it.....trust me. and if they cant forgive you....maybe it wasnt meant to be. y aknow?
Thanks

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