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Wisdomous
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Question..
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth...
Jul 21st, 2005 04:20 PM
Uneeklyconfused
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honesty is the best policy ..
its better to hurt someone with the truth ...
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:21 PM
CURIOUS22
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what did you lie about?
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:22 PM
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Re: Question..
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Fionnuala
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth...
Yes....tell the truth...
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:23 PM
Les yeux clos
Wisdomous
Gender: Female Location: Londinium Town
quote: (post ) Originally posted by CURIOUS22
what did you lie about?
I made something up based on truth...
Jul 21st, 2005 04:23 PM
§P0oONY
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United Kingdom
Your desision...
Just show them the thread to help them understand how hard it was to decide if you tell them the truth
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:23 PM
carnival_junkie
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Better to hurt someone with the truth than have them hurt even worse later when they find out the lie.
Talk to them.
I'm sure they wont be pleased about you lying to them, but it will be better than if they found out the truth later.
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:24 PM
Les yeux clos
Wisdomous
Gender: Female Location: Londinium Town
quote: (post ) Originally posted by §P0oONY
Your desision...
Just show them the thread to help them understand how hard it was to decide if you tell them the truth
It's not someone on here..it's in real life which makes it harder quote: (post ) Originally posted by carnival_junkie
Better to hurt someone with the truth than have them hurt even worse later when they find out the lie.
Talk to them.
I'm sure they wont be pleased about you lying to them, but it will be better than if they found out the truth later.
Thanks..that's good advice....I've written it in an email so I'm trying to get the courage to send it...
Jul 21st, 2005 04:26 PM
krillinite
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tell them the truth. its better than carrying the weight of guilt on your shoulders.. and itll hurt the person, but itll also mean alot to them to know you had the balls to tell them the truth
Jul 21st, 2005 04:27 PM
Burner
Rude Boy
Gender: Male Location: United States, MA
Yes, tell the truth, much better then acting like it never happened.
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:27 PM
Dante Vlada
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Fionnuala
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth...
secrets are nice but you started this thread so obviously somethings up
Jul 21st, 2005 04:27 PM
Les yeux clos
Wisdomous
Gender: Female Location: Londinium Town
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Oiram62205
secrets are nice but you started this thread so obviously somethings up
I can't stand lying to anyone...I always feel guilty and confess staright away....but this time it's so big.....
Jul 21st, 2005 04:29 PM
CURIOUS22
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Gender: Female Location: United States
the truth...its the only way. if they find our later and you didnt tell them it will cause worse pain and more problems.
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:31 PM
CURIOUS22
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Gender: Female Location: United States
may i ask what the lie is? i may be able to help you tell it to them in the best way.
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:32 PM
carnival_junkie
God
Gender: Female Location: Bumble fu.ck, TN.
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Fionnuala
Thanks..that's good advice....I've written it in an email so I'm trying to get the courage to send it...
email isnt always the best choice, but whatever makes it so that you can break the news to them.
good luck, sweetie.
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:33 PM
CherryPop
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Re: Question..
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Fionnuala
If you've lied about something to someone is it better to tell them or hope they never find out the truth?....becuase I can't take feeling so guilty anymore..it's killing me...but I don't want to lose them...my life could be made hell if I tell the truth...
Tell them, because they WILL find out and it will be about 100x worse than if you had just told them
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:34 PM
Les yeux clos
Wisdomous
Gender: Female Location: Londinium Town
quote: (post ) Originally posted by CURIOUS22
may i ask what the lie is? i may be able to help you tell it to them in the best way.
Sorry..it's kind of personal...quote: (post ) Originally posted by carnival_junkie
email isnt always the best choice, but whatever makes it so that you can break the news to them.
good luck, sweetie.
Probably not...but I'm not brave enough to do it any other way
Thank you...
Jul 21st, 2005 04:36 PM
Dante Vlada
Living My Last Days
Gender: Unspecified Location:
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Fionnuala
I can't stand lying to anyone...I always feel guilty and confess staright away....but this time it's so big.....
whats is done in the dark will always come to light
Jul 21st, 2005 04:38 PM
CURIOUS22
Senior Member
Gender: Female Location: United States
it will be ok....everything always works out for the best......the guilt isnt worht it.....trust me. and if they cant forgive you....maybe it wasnt meant to be. y aknow?
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Jul 21st, 2005 04:41 PM
Les yeux clos
Wisdomous
Gender: Female Location: Londinium Town
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Oiram62205
whats is done in the dark will always come to light
I know..quote: (post ) Originally posted by CURIOUS22
it will be ok....everything always works out for the best......the guilt isnt worht it.....trust me. and if they cant forgive you....maybe it wasnt meant to be. y aknow?
Thanks
Jul 21st, 2005 04:42 PM
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