Capt_Fantastic
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There is a differences in terms of 'attractive' and 'attracted to'. There are empirical truths to beauty on many different levels. I'm not attracted to women sexually, but asthetically I know what constitues a beautiful women. And I have my own opinions on what makes a man attractive, but I can regognize what makes a man attractive to other people as well. For example, I think Cameron Diaz is emperically attractive. She has perfect features, classically innocent features that combined with a youthful sexuality makes her one of the most attractive women I've ever seen. Brad Pitt, as cliched as he is, is a beautiful man. In many ways, he fullfills the same conditions that Cameron Diaz does. He is very boyish and has youthful features and he appeals to anyone who looks at him. Homophobia aside, guys know he's ridiculously hot, however, most guys appreciate him. Unlike Tom Cruise, he appeals to the every guy.
However, the flip side of all this is that there is a difference between what I find attractive and to what I'm attracted. Kind of like, who I think is hot, and who I'd sleep with are two different things.
I'm not sure what constitutes the difference all the time, but for example: Brad Pitt, hot. Colin Farrell, not so much. Angelina Jolie, hot. Jennifer Aniston, not so much. I could use people that aren't famous to illustrate it more personally, but you guys don't know who I see in my daily life, so the famous will have to do.