If u suspected your bf or gf of not being faithful how far would you go to find out the trust? Would you even bother or would you just sit back and let fate thats its course??
I would confont them about it.If they are lying then there are other ways of finding out.But sometimes snooping around is not always the best idea.Suppose you are wrong?The more you talk to her about it the better.
First you buy rose petals. Thousands of them. You surprise her with candlelight dinner and spend the entire time talking about the things you like about her. As dessert finishes you begin sucking on her fingers. Slowly, and not real wet. Just tenderly. You have all night.
You work this into the most mind-numbing oral she's ever received. Bring scuba gear. You make passionate love to her on satin sheets, and tell her you've never felt more alive.
Then break up with her. Just f--ing lay it on her. Say you know she's been cheating, that you loved her, and now your heart has been broken. Get angry. See if she gives in and admits to it.
If she doesn't, you're probably in the clear. Apologize to her like your life depended on it. Then propose to her. Tell her everything you said tonight was true, and that you want to spend your life with her. This is her second chance to come clean, or at least turn you down, which is all the information you'll need anyway to tell you it's not worth pursuing. So then, you're either engaged to a great girl, or you've figured out that you shouldn't be with her. Win/win, and you can break off the engagement weeks later if needed.
And if any of this works, you most certainly didn't hear it from some random **** on the internet who has no idea what you or your relationship is like.
Im not going to tell you what happend to rated-G but I will say that some men and women feel the need to open their legs and think that love comes from that moment spent in those few mins... I think that before you make a commitment you have to love the other person and yourself first. I can only admire some people who I have met over the years where they have been cheated on and have moved on with their lives...
I walked in on my ex hooking up with another guy when we were engaged. I went Jack Bauer on him, but only screamed at her. Dumped her on the spot. 5 year relationship gone, but such is life. Don't trust someone until they have earned it.
__________________ "Great men are forged in fire. It is the privilege of lesser men to light the flame . . . whatever the cost"
Did the guy know she was engaged? If not, no need to be angry at him. If my wife cheated on me, and the fellow had no idea she was married, how could I possibly fault him for that? It would be my wife who was the real d-bag.
I would simply ask her. If you know her well enough, you'll know if she is hiding something. You also have to look at the observations that are leading you down this pattern of thinking. Is she out all night?Ducking your calls? Acting differently towards your relationship? A lot of times you already know for the most part.
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Apr 29th, 2012 12:54 PM
