I don't know whether you already discussed it or not, but I haven't found a thread on this board about it.
So, what IS Denethors problem with Faramir?
I have made some guesses and would like to discuss them with you.
So, here they are:
1. Faramir is too similar to Denethor (Faramir reminds Denethor of himself or somebody else)
2. Denethor feels inferior to Faramir
(Faramir has a brilliant mind and can look into the soul of people what Denethor doesn't like)
3. Faramir loves books more and prefers them to being a warrior
4. Faramir and Mithrandir share a great friendship (Denethor feels skated over, he thinks Faramir loves Mithrandir more than his father)
5. Denethor holds Faramir responsible for Finduilas’ death
6. Faramir reminds Denethor of something or somebody from his past he wants to forget
I think it's mainly his friendship with Gandalf and his love for books and music instead of wars that make his father not like him so much; Denethor also didnt like Faramir's calm and always friendly character.
After the death of his wife he also looked for anybody to load his anger and depressiveness on because he could not bear it alone.
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Well, to add my book knowledge here, Boromir was Denethor's first born by his cherished wife. When Faramir was born, she died giving bbirth to him, so Denethor has harbored that bitterness that Faramir's birth took away the one thing he loved most in the world.
I also was always convinced that Finduilas died giving birth to Faramir, but I do not know why, as Finduilas died five years after Faramir was born.
Another problem between father and son was that Denethor could not understand the motives that moved Faramir to do something and so he was often suspicious and mistrusted him.
Both could "look deep into the hearts of men", but while Faramir felt pity, Denethor felt scorn.
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I heard that this wasn't true. I thought this was the case too but I heard a while ago, maybe even on this site, that Faramir's mom did not die giving birth to him. Does anyone know if this really is the case because its really bugging me!
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((people have probs alreay said this but...))
Boromir is the eldest son, and Denethors fave. Faramir ((n D's opinion)) is a poor substitute for B. also, D is hurting, he misses B, and so vents his misery on F.
Well, either way, Denethor still ooved his wife. Of course if memory serves me right, Denethor was a prideful, tempestuos man before he met her. She kind of softened him for awhile. But after her death, he returned to the whole bitter, angry man bit. Of course that did make him easier to manipulate via the palantir by Sauron.
Unfortunately for many the visual senses when seeing the movie as oppose to reading the book fills one with excitement and wonder of the scenery and the emotions displayed before them. Whereas reading actually takes discipline and a willingness to actually visualize that which one is reading. Not that many of the LotR fans here have not read the book. I for one have read it many times before seeing the movie more than I should have...
It's mainly because Faramir's birth caused Finduilus to die that's why.
Though his bitterness may also be caused by the Palantir and/or that might've fueled his sadness/anger more and so there goes Faramir riding out to war.
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Thank you so much Eezy!!
I'm starting over, do not mistake me for my brother - he has left. Eezy has convinced me to come back, give him some credit.