Gender: Unspecified Location: San Jose CA United States of Murrka
"fruit?"
Hehe, I applaud your bravery, Link. I was gonna call em tinkerballs at one point, just for shits and giggles, but I chickened out. Didn't want to deal with the backlash.
liltiggasmootay, I'd just like to point out that this mess of a thread is ALL YOUR FAULT!
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either way it goes we all have our personal lives to live and no one has the right to judge anyone on how they live their life . its usually those that are judging that have not one skeleton in there closet but a whole damn cemetary and they judge others to make themselves feel better about there own demons and insecurieties........
your sexual prefrence is your own buissness as is mine is to me and its no bodies buissness to judge me or be nosey about it unless they are wanting to share my bed .
but if people dont stop talking about religon and making new forums about wheather the bible is real or not this is gonna end up closed along with all of thoes forums.
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"When your young, you think your friends will last forever. But at the end of the day you've only got yourself."
"What happens when those gay guys raise the child to be a fruit? Ultimately resulting in them suffering through years of ridicule and humiliation at school because they are either raised as little fruits or because they have gay parents?
if they feel the need to love, why not get a dog instead?"
I totally agree. I mean, I think gay, lesbian and bisexual people being that way is totally fine as I've said before. I think it's rather selfish that you would put that child though years of verbal and possibly physical abuse from his peers just because he has two fathers or mothers.
Sure you can't help how your sexuality is and you shouldn't feel you have to, but if you make the choice to be homosexual then you should put aside realistically the want for kids. You've made the choice to live with the undeserved ridicule for being homosexual, don't make the straight kid go through the same thing.
'Choice' i hate that word now its being used way to often.... No one chooses to be gay no one chooses to be picked on. If people choose to be gay people wouldnt be hiding it in the first place. Its not a choice they cant help who they are atracted to. why cant anyone understand that?
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"When your young, you think your friends will last forever. But at the end of the day you've only got yourself."
There's nothing wrong with being gay, you can't choose what your sexual orientation is.
About gay people having kids... Not all gay guys are going to raise their kids to be "fruits". I know several lesbian couples with a kid or two, all of whom are very responsible parents. Moreso than a lot of straight people I know. It's definitely better for a kid to have both a mother and a father, but I don't think homosexuals should be prevented from adopting kids.
My reasons for saying homosexual people shouldn't have kids is because I don't think it's fair on the kids life. If somehow the kid can be raised without his friends knowing and therefore it not affecting his childhood, by all means. I don't see at all how that would happen though.
Gender: Unspecified Location: San Jose CA United States of Murrka
Never regret a thing that you do? Jeez, how selfish.
I've hurt people in my life, and regretted mistakes I've made. If I didn't regret the bad things I've done, I don't think I would be a very good person.
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AC... the only ones making a problem of gay couples having a kid are adults ... kids don't give a darn, they see two parents and yes, hey, that kid has two daddies... nice, he can play soccer twice with them
or that kid has two mommies... awesome! more food to eat
a kid doesn't think: hey! that's not normal! that couple will burn in hell now
"'Choice' i hate that word now its being used way to often.... No one chooses to be gay no one chooses to be picked on. If people choose to be gay people wouldnt be hiding it in the first place. Its not a choice they cant help who they are atracted to. why cant anyone understand that?"
Choice was the wrong term to use I'll admit. But what I meant was, if you are comfortable with being homosexual then that's awesome that you can be open about it and stuff. However:
"a kid doesn't think: hey! that's not normal! that couple will burn in hell now"
Your kid walks up to you crying because his friends parents wont let his friend come around to play because he has two dads. How would you feel? You think that when the kid grows up, or as he grows up, that this will not affect him? This is my reason for believing homosexuals having children is a bad choice. I don't think it should be a problem, but it is. Regardless of if choice is the right term or not, if I were gay I wouldn't want a child's quality of childhood demeaned because of my sexuality, as I'm sure no one else would either.
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Aug 9th, 2004 07:05 PM
I dont appreciate being exposed like this 
