Homosexuality: Chosen or Genetic? You do not have permission to vote on this poll.
Yes, homosexuality is chosen 125 46.82%
No, homosexuality is not chosen, its genetic 108 40.45%
Undecided 34 12.73%
Total: 267 votes 100%
Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by lord xyz But then we'd need 1000 plethysmograph devices to fit each indivisual penis!
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by FeceMan Bull-****ing-shit. Don't start with that "close-minded conservative" crap. It wasn't wrong for the man to come out; it was wrong for him to **** up his family life by ditching his wife and kids for another man. It'd be no different if he were a straight guy chasing skirts.
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 Well, Fece got a point, it's not really different to a straight guy deciding to **** other woman than mommy now....
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06:44 PM
Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic It doesn't change the fact that Fece is willing to carry disdain for the guy, simply because he's gay. And it's sad to me. As far as I'm concerned, it's more tragic that the guy spent years living in denial v. being honest with himself and his family.
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 Yeah, poor sad thing living in denial, sure it's shit, but when he started a family and that he had the responsibility to consider them too.
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06:51 PM
Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic And I'm sure he did for a number of years.
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 Well, once he married and had kids it was kinda done. But sure it is a shit situation, it is very reasonable to blame the father in this case...
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06:57 PM
Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic Fine. Blame him for leaving, not for being gay.
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 Of course, and even then it's not the whole story. And that's what Fece was saying when he compared it to someone that has an affair and leaves his family.
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07:43 PM
Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic You know, people get divorced everyday. And this situation is no worse because the guys dad was gay. And you're right, we don't know the whole story. But if this guy was gay, then he and his wife were having far more serious issues than the kid ever knew. We can all agree that people don't just decide to become gay, so it took a lot of willful ignorance on the part of the wife and family, on top of the guy living in the closet. I don't know any gay people who come out and actually take people by suprise by telling them. If the father was living in denial, then so was the kid and his family.
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07:48 PM
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 To hate him because he is gay, that is what's stupid.
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by Capt_Fantastic It doesn't change the fact that Fece is willing to carry disdain for the guy, simply because he's gay. And it's sad to me. As far as I'm concerned, it's more tragic that the guy spent years living in denial v. being honest with himself and his family.
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09:42 PM
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by FeceMan Whob, are you done ignoring what I'm saying and trying to paint me as the bad guy, or should I try and wait it out?
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09:59 PM
Afro Cheese Senior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Robtard Or was it wrong that he felt the need to 'closet' himself for so long because of societies negative view on homosexuals? Do you think if gays had every right and every bit of respect as straight people he would have ever been with a woman let alone married one and had a child?
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LatinoStallion Perfection Gender: Male
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Afro Cheese Oh, so it's SOCIETY'S fault that he built his entire family on the basis of a lie, because he was too scared to admit he was gay. How about a little personal responsibility for once, instead of blaming everything on homophobia?
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Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Yes it is Society's fault. Homophobia is very real and present, and if it didn't exist, then he would have no reason to hide it __________________
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LatinoStallion Perfection Gender: Male
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 I agree that it is partly societies fault, but not fully, he still chose to have a family...
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Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Lord Urizen
Most likely because he thought he could "turn straight" if he got married and had children. That's what Christians say to gay people isn't it ? Leave behind your "sinful ways" and live the way we want you to... __________________
12:10 AM
LatinoStallion Perfection Gender: Male
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Bardock42 Well, same reasoning could go for anyone who thought they could be a monogamist. Yet, when someone cheats on their wife it's usually said to be his fault. Doesn't sound fair.
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Bardock42 Junior Member Gender: Unspecified
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Lord Urizen
I duno. I just imagine, that like Governor McGrievey, he thought he could change. __________________
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