tiring and problematic but i have ZDK tonight so i should feel pretty good afterwards.
i have just got into a relationship with a girl called aamie. i literally got texts last night from another girl called paris (she is a sweet beautiful thing).
paris and i were friend and friends with benefits. anyway we were talking about a particular subject then one day she stopped talking to me, i figured she was in hopsital again (she usally is)
anyway i turns out my messages were being blocked and i felt like absolute shit as i really liked her. so after a while i mmet up with aamie to hang out with and at the end of our day she asked if i wanted to be her boyfriend
i said "okay, lets see if we are both happy with this and find out how things go"
now i feel like shit because paris sent me texts last night sayng she did infact love me and was scared i was using her like "the Other Girls" i have had sex with (3 over 4 years..... How is that other girls being used?) (guys have been a bit more then 3)
so yeah feeling crap but will feel a bit better tonight.
i want to see where things go with aamie because it wouldn't be right to say "yeah i am going to leave you, another girl just came back and i want to go with her not you"
problem with that is its douche, rude and i actually like aamie, i have for a long time and i know she really likes me.
Yeah, the girl likes you, but in a way, you already said Yes to aamie, pretty sure she'd be crushed, and it'd be kinda douchey to just say "Hey, I'm breaking up with you for this other girl". Now, the real question is, Did Paris know you were both just FWB's to begin with? There have been plenty of times in my past when I had an FWB and afterward we did things, she'd tell me she loves me or something.
Tell Paris that you guys were just friends, you're in a relationship now. It's going to be hard to do, though, from the looks of it.
Also, it was also kinda rude of her to assume you used those girls, my suggestion is, say something like "You were never just some sex toy to me, I care about you as my friend."
Lastly, don't leave her with ABSOLUTELY no hope and don't say anything too mean, cause you like her as more then a friend right? Give her some hints but don't outright say "If me and aamie break up, I'll date you."
Something a little nicer like "Maybe someday if something should happen, and fate brings us together in the future. But right now, I'm with someone that I like a lot, I'm sorry. I hope we can still be friends. "
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May 28th, 2015 05:28 AM
Thanks Scribble!
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it's early okay 
