No, I accept that. But I was acting defensively. According to you, I'm the only one in the wrong. Who cares who started it? You're only attacking me over it. ****.
Another great example of why jumping into an argument at the tail end makes one come across as Ill informed.
Just for your sake: this started when Bardock asked me why I was feeling shitty about 3 days ago. The way welshy interacted that day really hurt me, he acted as if I was attention whoring or something. I took the weekend off, came back and welshy kept being a prick. He only got from me what I got from him.
You two are so reactionary, it's occasionally hilarious. But mostly annoying.
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What did Walshy say that was a close personal attack? I will tell him as well, I have not witnessed it though. At any rate, I have no problem with how you initially replied to his joke, just asking him not to be a dick, but then you doubled down with something that's just uncalled for.
I do hope you feel better soon, but in my view you created a really toxic, unpleasant tone with that attack and I wish you wouldn't.
Thanks for the well wishing platitudes, but it's been going on for 7 years now and hasn't gone away yet, so "get well soon" probably isn't going to cut it this time.
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C'mon, man. I didn't say "I hope you are cured tomorrow"...obviously you are feeling particularly bad lately, and I do genuinely hope you come back to a better phase soon.
Yeah, accepted. I'm sorry for being a dick, but you really should stop being so arrogant and condescending and assuming you know everything about a situation. You may think you're being amazing by jumping in to anyone's defence, but most of the time it'll only cause further issues. I do appreciate that you think you're doing the right thing, but you assume far too much.
I was hurt by Welshy, and you didn't know that, so you just called me an *******, making me feel further marginalised and thus making me far more defensive, thus making the situation worse. If you didn't like the 'toxic atmosphere' I was apparently creating then say so, instead of picking a side and turning it into a serious issue.
I rarely open up to people, and lately I've been dealing with my shit pretty good, all things considered. I had a moment of weakness, and I felt even more isolated than usual. So I made that clear, in the pathetic hope that maybe one of my friends would message me in private and speak to me (didn't happen). Instead, I got Welshy mocking my depression, which made me assume I'd done something wrong. Me and Welshy take the piss out of each other plenty, but I thought we knew our limits. If he said outright that he felt like he had next to no reason to live any more I certainly wouldn't mock him for it. So maybe you can see why I was pissed off and being aggressive.
I respect you Bardock, in terms of your intelligence and sense of humour, but you're one of the most arrogant and condescending people I've ever spoken to, online or offline. Hopefully this situation will show you why jumping to conclusions and rushing brainlessly to anyone's aid isn't always the best approach at defusing a situation. Things are always more complex than someone simply being an '*******'. For someone who cares so much about people, you're pretty rude.
THen he goes on to say... My name is William James and i am from Barnet city in United kingdom, i am a Security Officer in the British Navy and also the commanding Officer to the British Navy that are stationed here in the UK High Sea to fight against the sea rebels who comes to attack the company working over here in the Sea
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