I started the spider-aunt thing...I didn't start the bitching around...calling my children bastards...calling someone a kid...it was meant to be a joke yes...but then you crossed the line...that's all I'm gonna say...
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I didn't cross any line. I spoke the truth, and didn't mean any offense. Thats what a child is if he is born before his parents are married, it's in the dictionary if you don't believe me. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I didn't ask if you were gonna have kids and you didn't have to tell me did you. I know a bastard myself, he goes to my school.
So that means that our ancestory is consumed with bastards, marriage is a recent invension of human beings, connected with religious reasons and (once upon a time and still in other societies) a method of men controlling or "owning" women, hence why women takes the name of the man. There may be a technical word for it, but you use the word "bastard" because you choose to. I know many people who have children and live together but are not married.
Well I didn't know any other..........subtle way to say it. Some people have kids before marriage and I thought that was the thechnical way to put it.............how else do I say it?
There are other offensive terms that are in the dictionary, doesnt mean we use them. But yeah, at 15/ 16 I didnt mind using such words either cause I didnt know better