That's not true at all. If I'm out and talk like I always do and if I find someone kinda funny, well I'll ask if he might want to get together and talk about how relationships suck and stuff.
It worked last time anyway. LOL
ME: Youre kinda funny
HIM: People generally suck, but you seem okay.
ME: In a relationship?
HIM: No, you?
ME: Nope.
HIM: Any kids?
ME: Not anymore, you?
HIM: Not anymore.
HIM: Relationships suck.
ME: Yep. Want to get together and talk about that? LOL
HIM: Heres my number.
ME: Heres mine, but I'm not gonna call you.
Needless to say we got together and he was quite fun and still is.
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Last edited by Deja~vu on Oct 13th, 2008 at 06:04 PM
Why are you criticizing just because he has morals? Wow, he's Christian, big deal. Honestly, go be an idiot somewhere else.
As for me, looking back at all these comments, it makes me sick knowing sexism is still prevalent in our society. I've had a girlfriend for over 3 years now, and my best advice is to simply respect one another and enjoy the simple love of a good relationship. And before anyone asks, I'm not a Christian, and neither me nor my girl have ever had sex. Call me a wuss, but with simple yet complex love, you can take a relationship anywhere. And yes, that sounds confusing to me too
atv2, The world has told you that you lack self confidence. You can't just have confidence in yourself, it's not enough. For what you are going through, what you desire, you have to have confidence in him. You are a man, being a man you have to protect who you are. Being a man you are subject to the desires of the flesh, you have to guard your heart because out of it comes the issues of life. You'll mess up everytime but Christ he's perfect he gave his life for you so you could have life. Trust in him.
I applaud him for being a Christian. Standards are so much higher than the secular life. It takes alot of strength and faith to stay in the walk with Christ.
Just be yourself and approach the one you like, introduce yourself in a nice way and shake hands with her. Before planning an approach, find out if that woman is single or attached. I'm not sure if you fancy both but have a fighting spirit with you to guide you on how to win a woman's heart.