You seem like a romantic from what you wrote. I really don't believe that a person can be a soul mate, but more to the tune of a sole mate, or someone that helps you through this life, which would be a help mate. There will always be conditions, because in order for you to live harmoniously with someone, you would have to have arguments in order to learn each others boundaries. The idea that a person that could get along with another unconditionally is in my belief a myth. You have to change in order to successfully integrate with another persons ideals, and they would have to change to fit yours. Children grow up, and become rebellious. If you give your child everything that their heart desires, you will tend to raise a spoiled brat. Unconditional means without condition, and that simply doesn't exist between 2 people. I mean, it's difficult enough to even love ourselves unconditionally.
Your kid might though. Can never tell what the little blighters are up to.
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The only conditional love is that which is enacted for an individual's direct survival. Like a man rescuing a woman at the expense of his life, a woman lifting up a car to save her child. Parent's nursing their children in general. There's a part of the brain designed just for that sort of thing, so that life could continue when our brains evolved before our radically implemented machinations and developed technologies and scientific sophistication made those regions of our minds obsolete.
Other than that, it's either compromise, infatuation, or the work of God.
Infatuation is the only thing one can guarantee, if one can both aesthetically appeal to another's sensual satisfactory and qualify as meeting that certain individual's emotional needs. Please keep in mind that all human beings share commonalities in those preferential regards. Compromise never ends well and is far more difficult than shaping yourself to infatuate others of the opposite gender (assuming we're all heterosexual or more heterosexual in our bisexuality [everyone is bi-curious, you have to respect yourself to respect others - same goes for gender]) through your lifestyle choices.
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When you're willing to do anything for her. Sacrifice everything. When all your thoughts are for her. Hormones are a part of it yes, but there is the emotional connection that is there. When she hurts, you hurt. When you hurt, she hurts. It's hard to explain until you've felt the power. Being in the presence is so intoxicating that it is like a drug.
For those who have felt it . . . we all have felt it's power.
For me I just think since humans aren't perfect they can never love someone unconditionally. I actually do believe in soul mates though. Or I guess for me..I just hope they exist. I thought my first girlfriend was my soul mate..but I was wrong. The current person I am with I don't try to think about things like that. I admit I'm very cynical due to being cheated on in past relationships. That baggage unfortunately carried over to the current girl I'm with. Of course she has some baggage of her own and is a cop and kind of..um, corrupt-ish.
Here is a question though about those talking about parents loving kids unconditionally: you have 2 kids, one brutally rapes and murders the other. You still loving that one kid?
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I'd try to get my male child help, however I'd also probably beat his ass. You have to be messed up in the head to rape someone, especially your own sister.
If you loved him without condition then why are you beating his ass?
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If you have love for a dead human isn't that unconditional? Technically they can't meet any condition at all and despite that they are loved anyway. I think you and some others are taking the idea of unconditional love and equating it with infinite love. A finite being cannot do anything indefinitely, this much we know, and the OP appears to be referring to humans on this plane of existence instead of immortal spirits. Unconditional love definitely exists because some humans are simply more extreme than others and we have evidence of this. Some humans will love a person that is torturing them in extreme instances. It is much more common for a human to love somebody that shows them love and shares many beliefs and values with them. If one human loves another DESPITE ANYTHING THAT PERSON DOES, then unconditional love exists.
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Dec 19th, 2014 03:02 AM
Thanks Scribble!
