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wats the youngest guy u would date? like for ex. my friend got with a 15 yr old and shes 17 im telling her that he's like a little kid, thats just wrong, isn't it? wat do u guys thing... or wat should i tell her?

I have been 18 and gone out with a 15 yr oldconfused

It depends how much you like the person

But if they are taking advantage of another person beacuase they are younger and dont like the person, then it is wrongconfused

i dated a 19 yr old when I was 25 (which was last yr) it was odd.. it didnt last long -- he was to immature

I don't really like younger boys, usally my age and up

i always date younger for some reason, i wish i could find someone older than me

Originally posted by K.Diddy
I have been 18 and gone out with a 15 yr oldconfused

It depends how much you like the person

But if they are taking advantage of another person beacuase they are younger and dont like the person, then it is wrongconfused

but its different when the girls the older one

Originally posted by veronica002
but its different when the girls the older one

confused I personally view it the same and then the guy/girl could be mature for there age as wellconfused

Originally posted by veronica002
. my friend got with a 15 yr old and shes 17 im telling her that he's like a little kid, thats just wrong, isn't it?

15 to 17 isn't bad.

I'm a 21 year old and a Junior in college. I'd date down to 18 if they are at least in college as well (life experience is just as important as age). I'd date maybe 4 years older than me. However, I look for people closer to my age. Those are just my limits if something were to just fall into place.

Originally posted by Myth
15 to 17 isn't bad.

I'm a 21 year old and a Junior in college. I'd date down to 18 if they are at least in college as well (life experience is just as important as age). I'd date maybe 4 years older than me.



I've gone out with a girl 5 yrs older, only for about 6 months and she(or me) were not to serious about itconfused But I found nothing wrong with it...

as long as they are legal... if you find a connection with that person then I think it's ok...

unless one is 60 and the other 16...

a guess an age gap of something like 20 years once someone is 21 or over is fine... sometimes...

i dunno... I'm starting to regret my thoughts now...

Originally posted by Piggle Humsy
as long as they are legal... if you find a connection with that person then I think it's ok...

unless one is 60 and the other 16...



Um, that would still fall under the category of illegal.

K. Diddy - The question is, how old were you when you started dating 5 years older than you. Thats important as well.

there is nothing wrong with a 2 year age gap, 3 years maybe, just as long as it is legal, but i would say a 16 year old and 18 year old would be ok

I guess I have it good, I am in a relationship and there is one month and 3 days between our birthdays

Originally posted by Myth
Um, that would still fall under the category of illegal.

K. Diddy - The question is, how old were you when you started dating 5 years older than you. Thats important as well.


17 and she was 22

Originally posted by Myth
Um, that would still fall under the category of illegal.

K. Diddy - The question is, how old were you when you started dating 5 years older than you. Thats important as well.

not where I am... uk, 16 is legal

Ummm....why'd you post this in the OTF and GDF?

Originally posted by Lana
Ummm....why'd you post this in the OTF and GDF?

im new to this crap i dint know

Originally posted by Lana
Ummm....why'd you post this in the OTF and GDF?



That's what I was about to say

Originally posted by veronica002
im new to this crap i dint know

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There's zero excuse to not know the rules.

Originally posted by Lightningrod
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lol well if i knew how to delte it i would

Only mods can do so; I reported it so one of the globals will close it.

Originally posted by Lana
Only mods can do so; I reported it so one of the globals will close it.

but they should leave the one here open, since the GDF doesn't get that much foot traffic like the OTF

My rule is 3 years difference max (ie 19 and 22), 4 years if they are hot (im a guy), 5 is pushing it

im 20...i might, might now, go as low as 17 MAYBE. 18 definetly..my oldest cut off age is 36

Originally posted by veronica002
wats the youngest guy u would date? like for ex. my friend got with a 15 yr old and shes 17 im telling her that he's like a little kid, thats just wrong, isn't it? wat do u guys thing... or wat should i tell her?

ok well this post is about me( diferent person typing now) she put it up cuz i dont have an account or whatever...

it dosent matter right, he's only 2 yrs younger... but than again he is little so idk wat to do

2 years can make a big difference though...maturity wise some people make it work

Originally posted by veronica002


it dosent matter right, he's only 2 yrs younger... but than again he is little so idk wat to do


Little in what way?

15 and 17 isnt that big of a difference... i think my 19 and 25 is a bigger difference than this 15 & 17 yr old stuff... o well..blah blah

Originally posted by K.Diddy
Little in what way?

little, as in he's a little kid u loser..lol

Originally posted by veronica002
little, as in he's a little kid u loser..lol


Just asking

Well lets see, last year I dated a 29 year old woman. I was 20.

As long as there is a connection between the two people, age shouldn't be a matter of discussion...unless one of them is underage.

If it's a non sexual (I mean they're not having sex) relationship is it still illegal?

In the US its fine as long as no sexual actions are performed. I'm not sure where kissing stands though, and if it is extreme (like a 40 year old and an 8 year old) I'm sure the law will try to do something.

As you get older, limits change.

A 20 year old dating a 10 year old is just sick...but a 50 year old dating a 40 year old is not abnormal. Or even a 30 year old dating a 20 year old.

They're all 10 years apart. Just as you get older, the age gap has a little room to widen.

wel i'm 18

At 18 I'd say don't go down past 16 and don't go above 21.

As I said earlier, life experiences are important too. There is a big difference between a 15 year old at the beginning of high school and an 18 year old just leaving or already gone from high school. Much like there is a big difference in somebody who is 18 and getting ready for college or real life and a 22 year old who is finishing college or have been living in the real world for some time now.

Arachno's comparison of age by decades is very similar. A 40 year old and a 50 year old are pretty much in the same general stage of life unlike a 10 year old and a 20 year old. I think a 20 year old and a 30 year old can be tricky. It kind of depends on where they are in life. If the 20 year old has been out of high school and in the real world a couple of years, they are pretty close to the same level as the 30 year old. However, if your like me and in college and about 20 years old (I'm 21), a 30 year old is in a completely different stage of life because I'm still trying to pull my future together.

hmmmm for many years my minimum limit is 2 years younger, and i'll go up to 5 yrs older now.

Same with me kind of. My limit both directions have been about 2 years (education wise). However, I see myself as very much matured now that I'm looking into grad school and can imagine myself going about 4 years older than me.

3 years seems the norm, 4 is probably my limit.

I think underage situations are tricky because I know lots of girls who are 16 and you'd never guess their age by attitude. Mental age is more important. If you're 16 and smart, then you know what lines not to cross etc.

-AC

ill say 4-5 years older.. the guy im dating is 4 and a half years older than me, people may say its a little bit of a diffrence, but you just have to have a connection


my parents are 6 years apart and my mom is older than my dad

But again, the question become how old are you? Not just how much of a difference in age.

Originally posted by veronica002
wats the youngest guy u would date? like for ex. my friend got with a 15 yr old and shes 17 im telling her that he's like a little kid, thats just wrong, isn't it? wat do u guys thing... or wat should i tell her?

She said Duplicate Thread....not wrong Forum.

My istake, I thought Storm meant that it has been done before...which it has....multiple times.....

I've never dated any guy younger than me but wouldnt judge anyone for it. My current partner is 17 years older than me, I'm 25 and he's 42, do you see any problem with his kind of age gap?

nope...

once youre in your 20s age doesnt really matter too much

I'm 30 and would drop to 21 MAYBE 20 as long as they can go the same places as myself ie bars now thats for a relationship but yeah know I would get with an eighteen or nineteen year old in college at a party one nighter

Originally posted by goodheyeveryone
I've never dated any guy younger than me but wouldnt judge anyone for it. My current partner is 17 years older than me, I'm 25 and he's 42, do you see any problem with his kind of age gap?



Yes,I personally think thats pretty ****ed up

"age anit nothin but a number"

To me age dont matter. Its how well i get along with the person and yes experience does differ in age but it different with every person.

Ive been with a 17 yr old and in the sam eyear i went with a 30 yr old. and im 18

Thanks everyone for your replies - I have no doubt that its right for me, I have a lot of feelings for his guy and the age gap isnt going to change that. He has his children from previous relationships who I get along with really well, I spend a lot of time with them. I dont want my own children so the fact of him already having children and probably not going to want anymore doesnt bother me in the slightest.
Thanks again.

Originally posted by veronica002
wats the youngest guy u would date? like for ex. my friend got with a 15 yr old and shes 17 im telling her that he's like a little kid, thats just wrong, isn't it? wat do u guys thing... or wat should i tell her?
Gee, I was 15 once and I was with a 17-year old. My age didn't seem to bother her one bit.

Originally posted by goodheyeveryone
Thanks everyone for your replies - I have no doubt that its right for me, I have a lot of feelings for his guy and the age gap isnt going to change that. He has his children from previous relationships who I get along with really well, I spend a lot of time with them. I dont want my own children so the fact of him already having children and probably not going to want anymore doesnt bother me in the slightest.
Thanks again.

Well,if thats what makes you happy

yer, as long as you feel good in the relationship, go for it

exactly!

much Older than me..


soulwinner_marissa

I dated a guy who was 3 years older than me once. But it didn't last long.

I prefer to date guys my age or older. I'm not big on the younger man

Youngest I would date would probably be 20. Wouldn't go younger than, i don't think.

Originally posted by veronica002
wats the youngest guy u would date? like for ex. my friend got with a 15 yr old and shes 17 im telling her that he's like a little kid, thats just wrong, isn't it? wat do u guys thing... or wat should i tell her?
Um...No it's not wrong. I've never really dated anyone with an age difference. When I was 12 I had a 16 year old like me, but we didn't date. Daniel is almost 18 and I'm almost 17, so no big difference between the both of us. My aunt is 40 and she's married to a 50 some year old.
I think, as long as it isn't not an age span big enough to consider itsself statchitory(sp) rape, and they care for each other, go for it. It's not a big deal.

statutory i think is the word you're looking for

I totally agree. There's a huge difference between my mom and dad. But they both waited until they were over 20 before they got married.

Originally posted by Zebina
statutory i think is the word you're looking for

I totally agree. There's a huge difference between my mom and dad. But they both waited until they were over 20 before they got married.
There you are, dear, I was close. Kidding.

I'm 18 with a 16 year old. age doesn't have much to do with it, it's the maturity of the individual...
I know 21 year olds that act younger than my 16 year old boyfriend.
so, i mean, it depends on the person...

Originally posted by Myth
But again, the question become how old are you? Not just how much of a difference in age.
I think your wrong on that.. It doesn't really matter about age.. but by how much they have matured.. because, there are some adults who act like teenagers.. and ones that act like adults, and i know 14-15 year olds that are A lot more mature than they actuality are and there's some that still act like 8 year olds..

Commando Queen you are on the right track! Age does make a difference to some degree ie 25 year old with a 15 year old. However if everything is legal its more about commonalities and doing things together that make sense for both parties Or hell I could be wicked wrong

Exactly.. IF you find someone that you can talk about anything with, and your comfortable with it dosent make that much of a diffrence unlless the diffrence is really big.. The same goes with people who like the same sex..

I'm glad there are people who wouldn't look down on me for dating my young boyfriend... of a different race at that..

Originally posted by Commando Queen
The same goes with people who like the same sex..


Hehe now thats your choice I'll play with Barbies no Ken dolls for me

LOL there is only one race................the human race!

I once dated an egg.

Originally posted by Commando Queen
I think your wrong on that.. It doesn't really matter about age.. but by how much they have matured.. because, there are some adults who act like teenagers.. and ones that act like adults, and i know 14-15 year olds that are A lot more mature than they actuality are and there's some that still act like 8 year olds..

Agreed.

But with some people it's not the age that matters but the level of maturity that they see for in a person. And these days you'll find (like CQ said) a lot of adults who act like teens, and the other way around. If someone likes someone else that's 10 years older than them let them be, it's hard enough to find someone you like that's your age and actually is mature, good, and likes you back these days anyway. There are lots of possibilities to this.

Originally posted by Itzak
Agreed.

But with some people it's not the age that matters but the level of maturity that they see for in a person. And these days you'll find (like CQ said) a lot of adults who act like teens, and the other way around. If someone likes someone else that's 10 years older than them let them be, it's hard enough to find someone you like that's your age and actually is mature, good, and likes you back these days anyway. There are lots of possibilities to this.

Your sig is a penis.

*giggles*

Yes, I'm being Ironic.

I think this thread should be renamed "the thread where people pretty much repeat what everyone else has said."

Originally posted by Bloigen
Your sig is a penis.

*giggles*

Yes, I'm being Ironic.

So? You're a penguin.

*points and giggles*

Originally posted by howaboutno
I think this thread should be renamed "the thread where people pretty much repeat what everyone else has said."

Do you know what I think?

I think this thread should be renamed "The Official Repetition Thread*

Originally posted by Itzak
So? You're a penguin.

*points and giggles*

Suck my balls.

Originally posted by Bloigen
Suck my balls.

Make me.

Originally posted by Itzak
Make me.

No.

Originally posted by Bloigen
I once dated an egg.

Originally posted by Bloigen
Do you know what I think?

I think this thread should be renamed "The Official Repetition Thread*

you crack me up, k id

Question.. I think i have you ppl beet but..

How many ppl have been with someone 10-12 yrs older?

I don't think age really matters when your in love. But I don't really like dating younger girls, i like to date them my age and up for the most part

I only Date Girls in the Embryo State.

age is just a number...i mean come on...how else did Stella Get Her Groove Back?

As we age, gaps of a 5, 10 and even 15 years seem to matter less because our life experiences are more similar. (Large) Age differences can be overcome if people are at similar places in their lives. When you are a teen still finding your voice in this world dating somebody who is significantly older can stifle you.


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