Goddess Kali
I thought a lot about this.....
You ever notice how when you are attracted to someone, or when they are attracted to you, there is usually a unique and/or specific reason(s) ?
It's either his or her eyes, hair, body, smile, skin complexion, or some immediate physical trait...
And if not physical, it is either because they are into the same things you are into...they might have a sense of humor like you do, or beleive the same things you beleive, or agree with you on almost everything.
This person may be of the same culture, religion, ethnicity as you are, or they may have interests and talents that attract you.
Or this person could simply be your opposite....your other half, the part that you feel "completes" you.
....well.....
What happens with the thing that attracted you both is no longer there ?
What happens when that stud loses his abs and pecs, and trades them in for a beer guy and boobies ?
What happens when that hott chick's tetas begin to sag, or her gorgeous face begins to droop ?
What about that genius ? That smart man or woman, so intelligent, so mentally complex and powerful...starts to relax, and no longer concentrates on studies, but on the simpler pleasures of life...
What happens when that gorgeous person's eyes begin to tire ?
Or when that hilarious person begins to become boring ?
Does the Love also fade away? Is the spark gone ?
If Attraction is conditional, then is it even worth pursuing ? Think about it...what do we like about other people ? Thier eyes ? Their noses ? Thier buttocks ? Thier personality ? Thier mind ?
Things which are all temporary, things which do not last, and things which are all subject to inevitable change ?
Is Attraction really THAT fragile ?
If Attraction is based on:
1) Sex
2) The Desire not to be lonely
3) Visual/Mental/Emotional interest
Then it is truly conditional, and perhaps we give it too much value....
What say you ?
I just gave myself a ****ing headache.....
You ever notice how when you are attracted to someone, or when they are attracted to you, there is usually a unique and/or specific reason(s) ?
It's either his or her eyes, hair, body, smile, skin complexion, or some immediate physical trait...
And if not physical, it is either because they are into the same things you are into...they might have a sense of humor like you do, or beleive the same things you beleive, or agree with you on almost everything.
This person may be of the same culture, religion, ethnicity as you are, or they may have interests and talents that attract you.
Or this person could simply be your opposite....your other half, the part that you feel "completes" you.
....well.....
What happens with the thing that attracted you both is no longer there ?
What happens when that stud loses his abs and pecs, and trades them in for a beer guy and boobies ?
What happens when that hott chick's tetas begin to sag, or her gorgeous face begins to droop ?
What about that genius ? That smart man or woman, so intelligent, so mentally complex and powerful...starts to relax, and no longer concentrates on studies, but on the simpler pleasures of life...
What happens when that gorgeous person's eyes begin to tire ?
Or when that hilarious person begins to become boring ?
Does the Love also fade away? Is the spark gone ?
If Attraction is conditional, then is it even worth pursuing ? Think about it...what do we like about other people ? Thier eyes ? Their noses ? Thier buttocks ? Thier personality ? Thier mind ?
Things which are all temporary, things which do not last, and things which are all subject to inevitable change ?
Is Attraction really THAT fragile ?
If Attraction is based on:
1) Sex
2) The Desire not to be lonely
3) Visual/Mental/Emotional interest
Then it is truly conditional, and perhaps we give it too much value....
What say you ?
I just gave myself a ****ing headache.....