silver_tears
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Would You Continue?
Say you were seeing someone, and it was pretty serious, you thought you were "in love" if you will. This person seemed to you to be the right one for you, and you believed the relationship was moving towards happily ever after.
Then one day you found out this person was in fact with someone else, for longer than they were with you, be it they were married or just together. Their significant other had no idea you exist, and the cheating partner has no idea you know, would you continue the relationship knowing full well you won't get caught and hoping they'd leave the other for you, or would you end it because you felt guilty.
Honesty is key here
Nov 20th, 2005 11:34 PM
FrozenSeduction
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I'd stop.
I mean if he's cheating with you (not you ST just whoever), what stopping him from cheating on you with someone else?
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Nov 20th, 2005 11:36 PM
Trickster
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Gender: Male Location: United Kingdom
I'd stop too...
If it was just a one time thing, I'd challenge her/him, but another relationship?! And I'd seriously consider telling the other person.
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Nov 20th, 2005 11:38 PM
silver_tears
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by French Tip
I'd stop.
I mean if he's cheating with you (not you ST just whoever), what stopping him from cheating on you with someone else?
Very good point
But would the other person who you've never met or seen have any affect on your decision?
If you were truly in love with this person and you didnt believe they'd cheat on you, would you stop regardless?
Nov 20th, 2005 11:43 PM
FrozenSeduction
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quote: (post ) Originally posted by silver_tears
Very good point
But would the other person who you've never met or seen have any affect on your decision?
If you were truly in love with this person and you didnt believe they'd cheat on you, would you stop regardless?
Ofcourse I would!
Obviously he would cheat on you!
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Nov 20th, 2005 11:45 PM
Spearhead
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Gender: Unspecified Location: SECRET TUNNEL! SECRET TUNNEL!
I'd stop...call me selfish, but if I'm seeing someone that seriously, I'd prefer to be the only one... thanks
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Nov 20th, 2005 11:45 PM
Alpha Centauri
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I'd stop. Cheating is the ultimate no.
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Nov 21st, 2005 12:32 AM
Peach
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I would stop. I'd feel guilty, plus if they're cheating on someone else already, what's to say that they wouldn't cheat on you?
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Nov 21st, 2005 12:33 AM
Victor Von Doom
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Meaningless encounters are the future.
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Nov 21st, 2005 12:43 AM
Soleran
Fast As Time
Gender: Male Location: Made of Dreams
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Lana
I would stop. I'd feel guilty, plus if they're cheating on someone else already, what's to say that they wouldn't cheat on you?
Cheating really shows the most craptastic qualities in people.......I mean not only are they cheating but lying about a TON of things to cheat "successfully."
Get out of that and don't look back unless of course your the cheater and living the "good" life lol.
Nov 21st, 2005 12:45 AM
Scoobless
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Gender: Male Location: The Scoob Cave
quote: (post ) Originally posted by French Tip
Ofcourse I would!
Obviously he would cheat on you!
quote: (post ) Originally posted by Lana
I would stop. I'd feel guilty, plus if they're cheating on someone else already, what's to say that they wouldn't cheat on you?
not "would cheat"... he/she IS cheating on you... it's already happening!
but you shouldn't feel guilty in the slightest.... you've done nothing wrong
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Nov 21st, 2005 02:54 AM
KharmaDog
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Gender: Male Location: between apathy and indifference
I would stop just out of self respect and not even have to ask the question. I'd also drop the bomb on the person that the supposed significant other was also cheating on in as tactful way as possible. But that's your call.
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Nov 21st, 2005 02:58 AM
StrangeDays
Member
Gender: Female Location: Australia
no trust.
no relationship.
period.
Nov 21st, 2005 05:49 AM
StrangeDays
Member
Gender: Female Location: Australia
to elaborate .... even if one did think it was a relationship, it could only be so on a very superficial level.
Nov 21st, 2005 05:51 AM
mechmoggy
Northern Monkey
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I'd ditch em'.
Unless of course if it was silver. Whooooah momma.
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Nov 21st, 2005 08:23 PM
Ushgarak
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Gender: Male Location: Chelmsford, Essex, UK
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Hmm.
Much as I would say "I'd stop" if I were asked that question in general...
... that pretty much happened to me and I carried on.
Guess I suck.
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Nov 21st, 2005 08:36 PM
mechmoggy
Northern Monkey
Gender: Male Location: Changing nappies
Nuh-uh.
Ush is the man, and I won't have a bad word said against him. Even if it's from YOU.
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Nov 21st, 2005 09:02 PM
Trickster
True KMC Jester
Gender: Male Location: United Kingdom
Yeah! Ush-kicking time! We'll show him for insulting Ush!
(I don't actually know what I'd do... I might tell the other 'other' and see what happens. Probably the coward's way out. )
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He who dies with the most toys. Still dies.
Nov 21st, 2005 09:12 PM
Ushgarak
Paladin
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I think the sex was a very tempting part of the equation that is easy to forget about when talking only in theory.
Ok Mech, have your wicked way with me...
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Nov 21st, 2005 09:14 PM
BobbyD
Animal Lover
Gender: Male Location: United States
The problem with this thread is you said I would have feelings for this person. And when most people get that far, they want someone for themselves. I would leave.
Nov 21st, 2005 09:35 PM
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