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I slove things, but depending on my mood, I sometimes complicate them because I enjoy watching the drama that happens. But I only do that if it has nothing to do with me, Its like watching a battle out in the fields from a safe distance, you can't get hit.
I've always been seen as extremely good at giving advice and I've always been people's go-to guy. When it's me, however, I'm personally involved and so a lot of my logical suggestions to others don't really apply and it gets complicated.
Weird ain't it? I do my very best to help others but concerning my own life I'm ignorant and lazy, f#cking up left and right while I should know better.
To be honest with you homes, I have anger issues which clouds my better judgment. So when I have a problem with some one, I usually don't go about solving it in the most "rational way".
I'm college educated ( I wasted my money ) so I'm supposed to be a problem solver, but many of my "mentors" aka teachers, never seemed to be capable of answering a direct question therefore complicating matters. People gain more of a problem solving attitude living in the real world aka working. God damn it I hate people.
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I often play the devils advocate just to watch the sparks kicked up from the resulting conflict. Although if i'm feeling charitable i can solve a problem . I often don't though....
Many problems that people have I can solve by myself, but I can´t show them how to solve the problems. I think almost all problems are communication problems. About my own problems, sometimes I think I understand them logically, but understanding them simply doesn´t helps solving them.
Uhhh, I dunno really. Looking at the questions and answers I see a problem already, because sometimes things that look complicated are quite simple, and sometimes it’s the other way around.
I don’t really know if I’m good at solving other people’s problems… I’ve REALLY tried to learn the art of listening and then asking certain neutral questions, because a solution to their problems may not be what I’d have done if I were in their shoes.
I know I usually over-complicate my own problems especially if they’re in regards to other people. And because I need to learn the art of patience…
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Do you Solve Things or Complicate them?
May 12th, 2006 10:50 PM
And because I need to learn the art of patience…
