I believe that sex is theraputic, helps you relax.
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Well, a lot of things we use to curb stress can inadvertently cause it. Sex for an individual isn't a must, but it is necessary to continue the human race.
it's not the sex, it's the person, and if you don't have the right person, it's not worth the time/energy. even if it's decades, it's not worth having sex just to have sex, that's boring. that's like reading just to read. i love bike riding, but i hate doing that indoors b/c it takes away from the experience. having sex just for sex is like a recreational sport or exercise, more so then a savoring event, such as outdoor biking or reading a great novel or non-fiction subject.
besides, if you think of the frequency of sex as food...if you eat the same meal everyday, you spoil the flavor, if you don't eat it all the time, it stays special.
and, it's always about the person, imo, not the act alone. it's like having company for dinner, it's always about the quality of the invites, not solely about the meal. even if the meal is bad, it doesn't matter if the company is good (of course, you cook or buy a great meal, but the company is very important in order to enjoy the experience, so sometimes, it's better to dine alone, just to respect yourself, even if you have to learn it the hard way (or from what i learned from the history channel yesterday, it's not solely about "horizontal refreshments").
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Last edited by Czarina_Czarina on Sep 29th, 2007 at 12:20 AM
it's always about the person, imo, not the act alone. it's like having company for dinner, it's always about the quality of the invites (and u have to judge that based on your own taste, not the tastes of others or family or peer pressure. you can't always eat tomatoes just b/c your friends tell you to, you may end up resenting it, eat or dine according to your palate. be true to your own taste, only you know what that experience brings to your heart and mind.
i can ask a family member to taste something before i eat it and ask their opinion, but at the end of the day, it's my palate not theirs, as we probably don't have the exact same taste buds, so our experiences may not be the same. but, if someone tells me i'm weird b/c i like sushi and i'm not Japanese, if i'm insecure, i may feel awkward about enjoying that taste in their company. i may like coconut or horseradish (not at the same time), but, i may not eat it around family members or ppl who find that kind of "outsider" dish/condiment palatable.
i doubt ppl are born with the exact same taste buds, so we may taste foods in different degrees of enjoyment or may leave a taste in the mouth of some but not all. thank God for variety in fruits and veggies, although I stick with my favorites, I still like to think I have options, we all like to think we have options, even if we don't.
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Last edited by Czarina_Czarina on Sep 29th, 2007 at 12:37 AM
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In the remote past, those who needed sex to survive, had lots of sex and lots of children. They passed this need for sex to the future generations. Those who did not need sex to survive did not have sex and died without passing that trait along.
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