Well, lately I've been having some problems. I've been going out with this girl, but she wont really talk to me because she's too shy.... but that's the least of my problems. She smokes, she does dope and she cant do anything with me. Every single time I try and go out with her somewhere she comes up with an excuse..... I dont know what to do. It's frustrating sometimes, I mean shes a really great girl, she just has problems.... what do you guys think?
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It is obvious that she is not good enough for you. You deserve someone better that will actually beg to spend time with you. Plus she uses drugs....c'mon you yourself were probably high when you made the decision of asking her out.
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Last edited by Sgt. Hairy on Nov 15th, 2005 at 02:24 AM
Just becareful she doesnt say you and say she will stop the dope then go behind your back. I am afriad it might set you up for a hard time. Just be awear that might happen. Its hard for users to quit right away.
or he could just say, "Look, I like you. But I don't like fact you do drugs and I don't like that you always seem to be to busy for me. As of now, its over between us. I don't want to deal with this. It wont do any good for relationship" if she really cares about you and the relationship she will try her hardest to change and try and make it work.
After researching some things about pot, I've come to realise that I dont care about that, it has almost no longterm affects. I'm going to tell her to stop smoking and that she needs to stop blowing me off.
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doing pot is not something i would consider a great quality in a person, but we are all entitled to a chance to redeem ourselves. we all make mistakes and sometimes it takes someone to point them out to really make us think. just make sure you don't get sucked into doing the same thing.
but as far as the blowing off thing goes, if she continues this, then she's obviously not worth your time. there are plenty of other girls out there.