someone who accuses you going after their girlfriend?
After being acussed twice, taking the blame for his stupidity and going through emotional hard times i decided enough is enough,
This part onwards is a story within my life.
usually when me and one of my friends have a quarrel it will only last a short amount of time, but this is a different case. Cause the guy is a thick headed stubborn ass who never admit his in the wrong. and the girlfriend is a naive little ***** who used to be one of my good friends (this was before they had a relationship worth speaking of). when ever she had a problem and wanted to talk she'd come to consult me and i would help in anyway i could even though i got to the point where it was taking its toll on me.
Anyways they're coupling has always being troublesome for me, cause she'd come to me for advice and i'd do my best to help. about a month and a half back she came to me and told me that they had a quarrel and it involved me. Apparently he thought i had feelings for her, which i don't and never will, cause she is far from being my type. I had a talk with him i was suprise to hear him say i couldnt look him in the face and talk, how could i if he had an annoyed look on his face at the time. The problem was supposedly over but just to be on the safe side i would avoid talking to her.
Another event arose, he was complaining about not being invited to a bbq where his GF when invited. I don't see why he was complaining, they had no intention on going and he hated the guy hosting it anyway. They never seemed to show up to those group things, I told him, he should go and told him hyperthetically that they may lose respect for him if he don't sshow up to one of those events once in awhile. Being the thick headed fool he was took it the wrong way told his girlfriend the story from "his" point of view
she had a fight with her friends about it. I had to jump in take the blame even though i didn't think it was my fault but his for jumping to the wrong conclusion.
At this point i would see them alot less.
one day out of the blue (on msn) and ask me why i don't talk to her anymore or as much as we used to. At this point i was feeling stress from the amount of work i needed to do and was taking a short rest. I was also hesitant to respond to anything she ask because i was afraid it would somehow blow up in my face, and sure enough it did. She ask me why i don't talk to her anymore then ask me is it because i found her annoying,
I told her that was the reason. She and the bf had been talking and she i asked him why he thinks i don't talk to her no more, he told her cause i thought she was annoying. this was from the previous convo where i told him that i would never go out with her cause i'd find her annoying (to date), It had nothing to do with why i don't talk to her, she asked my what i was annoy at, i refused to answer cause i felt it would blow up in my face. but she was persistant, so i told her it was her couply habits being the nitwit she she told her bf. and knowing he would jump to the wrong conclusion, he approaches me (still on msn) and asked what i ment. I told i was not annoyed at them as a couple but what they do as a couple, naturally he paid no attention to what was said and belived i that wanted his gf. I had enough! I didn't need that shit in my life.
i knew the idiot was the strong jealous type but never thought he would accuse his own friends.
the idiot girlfriend blames me for sparking the jealousy in him when she was the idiot that told him what i said and not knowing her own bf well enough to realise he'd take it the wrong way.
She also blames me for the fight with her friends, guess that can't be helped cause i accepted the blame, even though it was the thick headed bf's for jumping to the wrong conclusion.
The main problem now is we're both in the same friendship group.
Well, I didn't read the whole, but I got the gist. If your friend is that thick after you've explained to him that you're not going after his girlfriend, phase him out of your life. And then if he comes back and admits that he was wrong, forgive and forget.
Just make out with him and get it over with. He is just mad that you’re trying to score with his Girl instead of trying to score with him. Slip him some tongue and you'll be holding hands again in no time.
Baka,
Obviously your friend is paranoid and doesnt trust very well. I'd say just tolerate him and the chick. Treat them normally, but dont go out of your way to be around them. It sounds like a situation you want to get out of asap.
just learn to accept their bullshit. relationships make people do stupid things (and be stupid) a majority of the time, you can't let things like that ruin friendships, especially if you've been friends with this girl for a long time
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No, no. I like it. I approve of it. Best OT thread of the week. I also read it. Though it took me some time. Had to answer to the fast pointless shit first. Good read, you should work on some of the words though. Your misspelling of hypothetically did disturb me.
Okay, anyways, I don't know how to give you advice. I have never personally been in such a situation. I also think there is probably too little known. He (and she) just doesn't seem like people you would want to be friends with. I mean, you could just clarify how you feel and well, try to not have to do much with each other, even if you have the same friends except for that. Maybe that would work.
And as someone else said, it is obvious that relationships make people idiots. I think people in relationships lose at least 20 IQ points, which might be the problem with people that only have 80 for their own usage to begin with.
You could also just try to destroy their relationship. Id on't see the advantages for you in that yet, but it would be something to do. It's my evil self (I usually just refer to it as myself) speaking obvious). It oftentimes has a point though.
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