No, once I found out that Sebastian is here to stay forevers and evers I turned my blinders off, turned my blinker on and went in the direction of my friends, seeing them and not JUST Seb. Lots of people do that, they shut everyone else out for their Lover...not the right thing to do. Everyone becomes blinded by love at some point, but they need to get around that.
People who believe every single guy/girl that shows them the least bit of sustained attention for more than a few months or even more, is somehow the person they're gonna be with forever, is blinded by many things, much less love. See thread for details.
If you were "so sure" before and can so easily move on and be "so sure" again, then I'm sure that alarm bells should be ringing.
I once blinded a girl with "love" once, but that's a different tale.
Punky, you once said, I believe, that you're the kind of girl who believes that you "just know" when love happens, that it's clear and honest and so obvious when it finally happens (If it wasn't you, forgive me.).
If that's the case, how can you be that...and blind?
yes, Love blinds you. not all the time, but it has blinded me severely. they do things to you that no one should ever have to endure. they seem so beautiful, but, when they leave/you leave, you eventually see the ugly person they really are.
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All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I **** like you wanna ****, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not.
Hmm..I really don't know but what I do now to work out my relationship (because I love him of course) with my boy is to accept him for being what he is.
In each and every one of my relationships I was blinded by love and got stabbed in the back multiple times. Then my assailant thrust that rusty dagger into my heart and twisted it.
Yeah, I pretty much gave up on love. But that's not to say I still don't believe in it.
"Love" is a word much abused in modern society yes.
hmm....no i don't think i ever said that.
And also "love" is not blind in essence. It is complex but actuality more like common sense than anything else. People term the state of being all sorts of things like "electric chemistry" to "magic" to whatever have you. When really the mechanics of a romantic relationship aren't too different from a parental or platonic one, except of course for the inclusion of sex. Whatever makes two friends click, makes two lovers click in times when sexuak hormones aren't flooded through their viens. simple as that.
So yes, what i mean by saying love is "blind" is not that people fall in love blindly. I'm trying to say that people in love, love blindly.
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Are you blinded by love?
Aug 23rd, 2007 09:02 PM
