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The Final Answer.
For those who remember, I've made two threads explaining my situation right now. One about my grandfather, the other about my parents. This third and final thread explains the full truth of what's been happening now.
To start, about my grandfather, I mentioned he had cancer for 18 months and he was scheduled to pass soon. Well, he did. A week ago last Monday, my dad came to me at 10pm and told me he passed away at 2pm Central, which is 3pm Eastern for me. However, he passed away two days earlier than expected. There was nothing I could do. We were hundreds of miles apart, so I wasn't there for him.
To end, my parents are really going through with a divorce. I found a sticky note in my mom's wallet with a divorce lawyer's name, and she plans to move back to Canada, this time however in Vancouver. I'd rather stay with my dad, however, it will take about 3-4 years for our permenant residancy to get going.
My life has been a total sh*t hole right now, and I don't know what to do. No, I'm not going to kill myself or turn emo over this, but right now I'm under a lot of pressure and I could use some advice.
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Change my attempt, good intentions.
Should I? Could I?
See a counsellor or someone you can talk to. Or go for a run, figure things out etc. Sorry about your grandfather. And your parents divorce. Been down that road before... Sort of. It sucks. And I live in Vancouver, its actually pretty cool.
I went through the same shit. My mom left when I was 10, and even though it was hard, we pulled through, me, my dad and sis. do you have any brothers or sisters?
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I feel for you man. My Grandma just passed away 2 days ago. She was the best Grandma I could have ever had, so I know how that feels. This will all pass. Just take care of yourself, you'll get through it.
Gender: Male Location: Over there. Maybe there, too.
I have been spending most of my time out with my friends just to get it off my mind and forget about it, and it has been working. A few of them went down the same road and constantly give me advice to get through it.
And yes, I'm thinking of seeing a counselor. Until my life starts tumbling back into place, I'm just going to keep talking with my friends, teachers, whoever.
I do have a sister, and we seem to talk about it everyday. Also, sorry to hear about you're mom leaving.
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(Thanks Raijin) Xbox Live-Frisky Marcus
Change my attempt, good intentions.
Should I? Could I?
you and your sis will grow closer through this, mark my word.
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All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I **** like you wanna ****, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not.
Also, don't cut...it just leaves scars of embarassment. If you must do something like that, try electrocution because it doesn't leave scars and it hurts A LOT more...and no permanent damage. I am actually serious about this.
I lost my gramps a few years ago, and it wasnt until after he was gone that I realized what I had lost. All you can do is stick close to your family and soldier through.
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All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I **** like you wanna ****, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not.
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Feb 9th, 2008 05:20 AM
See a counsellor or someone you can talk to. Or go for a run, figure things out etc. Sorry about your grandfather. And your parents divorce. Been down that road before... Sort of. It sucks. And I live in Vancouver, its actually pretty cool. 
