I agree. Hunnny you should find yourself a real man one that can support you and treat you like a queen, if hes not your type you better find away to ditch his broke ass, you dont want him to bring you down!!!
But in all fairness give him a chance, ask around to anyone that might know him well enough for who to kind of figure out what kind of guy he is. Who knows you might get a good shag out of it.
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I dont know. He's really hard to read. Although he has been the instigator of text chat since we swapped numbers on Monday. He also says alot of things that scream of subtext which im trying to ignore. This is going to be a really tough one for me to work out.
If you drink his coffee juice he is likely expecting you to well... anything including maybe marriage til death.
We cant rule out Dave97's buttpeeing theory either at this point.
You say you don't know the guy, and his disproportionate reaction plus he has apparently sought you out on the net says enthusiasm.
If your head is confused go with your gut.
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Last edited by Sadako of Girth on Jan 20th, 2012 at 01:02 PM
Well take precautions as said above. Don't go with anything you arent comfortable with. If the dudes looking to smear feces on you and display you on top of his gunrack in a dank basement somewhere or something, don't feel that you have to conclude things his way out of fear of 'not being a successful date'.
The guy might be ok though.. you might have fun... guess you'll have to see for yourself. But "meet publically and date a few times that way and gauge from there" is sound advice if youre unsure.
. I did something similar with this one girl I met
First messaged her on Facebook talking about mutual friends and I tried to get her to go out just to hang out
Answer: she always mentioned yes in a group way but never yes to a just us way
Whenever we went out with friends. Shed avoid me like the plague.
Finally took two months but I told her after all the group handouts I liked her and wanted to see if maybe shed have coffee or dinner.
No. Won't don't will never like you that way.
A friend later told me that whenever I was around her I was like a bubbly kid. Too overly happy etc and treated her way too nice. And had me convinced all she liked was thugs. So I was like forget this. Stopped going to events and hanging out with her in general.
Then a few weeks later it got weird. She called me. Next thing I know we are talking JUST as friends... A few weeks later he expresses that the real me that's not chasing her is a nice guy...
It's been almost a year now. And I just got her some diamond earrings for valentines day coming up. :-)
Turns out she had never had a bf ever prior to me. Some quick dates but never intimate or anything like that.
Honestly sayin no to the guy could end up being a good thing. It could push him to open up like I did and let the girl see the real you.
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__________________ Quotes from Hia8:
"I claimed that the science is sometimes faulty."
"You don't understand. This is fiction. That means none of this stuff really happened."
"There is no writer to purposely ignore a character's natural ability just because it suits the story."
"in some cases because the writer knows that Character A will dominate Character B easily and refuses to allow this to happen for the sake of the story."
I have to question why you wish to date a man who has money problems? Why does he have money problems? Does he do drugs? Does he pay hookers to pee in his butt?
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