No Matter who you are, where you are, how you are, what you are, how you look, how far you go, how successful or whatever you become.....
Someone will always Hate you
It doesn't matter if you are White, Black, Hispanic, Asian, Gay, Straight, Religious, Atheist, Rich, Poor, Married, Single, Athletic, Artistic, kind, cruel, generous, greedy, intelligent, ignorant, wise, unwise, etc. .....There will always be a person, or group of people, who will dislike you, disrespect you, or have some kind of negative perception of you and what you are, for whatever reason.
And there's nothing you can do about that.
Likewise....
There will always be someone, or a group of people, who will LOVE you exactly for who and what you areregardless of what others or yourself think.
I beleive this to be absolutely true....do you agree or disagree ?
If you agree, then why care ne longer what others think? How others feel about you as a person, knowing that no matter what you do or become, you cannot please everyone, and that you cannot get every single living being to love and respect you.....
If you disagree, then why do you imagine that you can get every single human being to like you ?
I believe I have no to little control over the way others view me. It' s not the end of the world if someone doesn' t particularly care for me. If it is okay for me not to like everyone, then I certainly can' t expect everyone to care for me.
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You only live once. But if you live it right, once is enough. Wrong. We only die once, we live every day!
Make poverty history.
I agree. But that doesn't mean we're all suddenly gonna stop trying to get people to like us. Knowing people who like you is better than knowing people who hate you.
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But love and hate come from within YOU. What I mean is that you can't feel hated unless you LET someone make you feel that emotion. You are ultimately in charge of your own feelings and how you react to others feelings about you. You can be reactive or proactive. If you feel that someone hates you, just move on and don't dwell on it because ultimately it's not really you that they hate anyway, it has something to do with themselves and they just project it onto you...Well that is my opinion.
When someone hates me, I do not feel unpleasant, because I know he's not hating me, but projection...when someone talk bullshits about me, I'm not taking him seriously because I know he's not talking about me, but when someone's speaking against the truth, I go nuts, because I'm personally offended...
And I'm not focused on words but motives beneath them, so words can't hurt me so easily...
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Last edited by argesilen on May 5th, 2007 at 05:54 PM
people either like me or dislike me. Fukk them if they hate me for petty reasons.
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All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I **** like you wanna ****, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not.
However, people persist on doing things they don't like, buying shit they don't need to impress people they don't like, in hope that they will like them.
It is important to be liked. Everyone wants to be liked, but it is impossible that they be loved by everyone and vice versa.
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I wouldn't use the word 'Hate', no one really hates anyone - they just have a strong dislike. I don't think that everyone necessarily has people who like and dislike them. There has to be someone who everyone likes or could like, somewhere.
I disagree...if you have an opinion, someone will like or dislike you
If you look a certain way, someone will like or dislike it
If you act a certain way, someone will like or dislike it
It is not possible to be liked or disliked by every single person...all people will have different perceptions of you, and there is nothing you can do about that.
Just choose who you'd rather have in your life, that is all.
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