So, I recently got a new job, and I'll cut to the chase - my boss is very attractive and I'd like to spend some recreational time with her. Would it be beneficial to add her on facebook or would that destroy my chances of spending time with her outside work? I've had experiences in which facebook can kind of, ironically, end a relationship in real life, so I'm curious as to what you guys would think.
Also, I'm drunk. So forgive any grammar/spelling errors. And potentially forgive me for this topic in general, lol.
All the ways you wish you could be, that's me. I look like you wanna look, I **** like you wanna ****, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I am free in all the ways that you are not.
Sure you CAN date your boss if its not against company policy, but can't say its a good decision. Even dating a coworker can end up messy, imagine if it was someone who controls your life 8 hours a day..,......
I'm kind of in the same boat; I want to get happy with my boss's receptionist. Buuuut all three of them of them are women so I think it's a bad idea.
As for you, I wouldn't do it unless its a job you already don't intend on doing for very long, like a temp job or something and not a career.
But, you'll sober up and figure that out anyway.
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Yah, cause they're all hot. Hottest bosses I've ever had, son.
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"The Daemon lied with every breath. It could not help itself but to deceive and dismay, to riddle and ruin. The more we conversed, the closer I drew to one singularly ineluctable fact: I would gain no wisdom here."
It IS stuff "someone" said. All the time, I hear people say, "oooohhhh man...don't get mixed up with a coworker or boss because it ALWAYS ends badly."
No it doesn't. It all ends shitty whether or not they are you boss/coworker because they are too immature to end relationships properly, to begin with. It only gets 'weird' because they let it get weird.
Then they say, "yeaaaahhhh...but...at least with the other relationships, you don't have to see them when shit goes sour." That just sounds like more relationship immaturity.
Some people are crazy and guys call that "crazy bitches." I understand that both genders are like that and that's your fault for not picking up the signs that they are crazy. Boss or no boss...do what you want outside of work. Stay professional at work. And set up relationship boundaries.
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Jul 9th, 2011 08:58 AM
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