I struggle with this verse alot and others that would relate to it. When I am around other believers, I hear that you only get what God has for you but when I hear others say it, it normally ends in dissappointment, failure, anger, etc.. all of the negative emotions that would come from expecting God to move on your behalf. What is the point of having that verse if you really can't have what you ask for. Alot of times believers would ask for healing and marriage. I want to be healed, and I would like to believe that is God's will for my life also and I want to be married to the woman that I've always wanted but it usually goes the wrong way. Family question my desires and try to make me feel as miserable as them. Listening to them alot, I feel miserable about who I would end up with. Friends, bestfriends have messed with my head on that. I fight it but it keeps coming back. There are alot of us in that position and I was wondering how do you deal with it. What is it that keeps you committed instead of giving up on your hopes and dreams?
Just curious, how old are you? You're thinking about marriage seriously, lamenting your luck, but still worried over drama with friends and family. You "fight it" but it recurs, suggesting that you're in regular contact with your family...either living at home or relatively close to them. Your friends feel comfortable telling you things about life, love, and God, so these are probably friends you've had for a while, another "close to home" indicator.
The desire to marry so strongly clashes a bit with the rest of that. My guesses would either be in your 30's in some potentially emotionally unstable relationships, or early 20's and thinking about settling down earlier than most. Your thread history trends toward DBZ and video games, so I'm guessing the latter. I'll say 22. How'd I do?
Sorry to veer off topic btw. I mean no disrespect, and I wish you luck. These are common fears, and I hope you reconcile them. But this is where my mind went and I was having fun with it.
So, why the worry? You're in your 20's. So long as you haven't been beaten with an ugly stick, are some level of Christian (a huge statistical bonus, romantically speaking), and are actually looking for a partner that you love instead of pining in a corner silently, your odds are very good of both finding someone and having the potential for a lot of fun in the process.
I'd go into the merits of singlehood and sexual freedom, but that doesn't seem to be your bag. So, ya know, here's hoping you settle down before your ovaries drop that last egg. Or something.
Just don't worry too much. Enjoy yourself. God, as you apparently seem to believe, has a plan.
HEY EVERYONE I THOUGHT ABOUT SOMETHING ON THAT VERSE! IT DOES WORK. I'VE COME TO REALIZE THAT WHEN WE FOLLOW GOD WE DO HAVE THE DESIRES OF OUR HEART! WHEN WE GET WHAT WE WANT PREMATURELY WE DONT HAVE THE DESIRES OF OUR HEART BECAUSE IT NEVER COMPLETES US! WHEN WE LINE UP WITH GOD'S WORD, HE GIVES MORE THAN WE CAN EVER IMAGINE AND TO COMPLETION! HE IS OUR SHEPERD AND WE SHALL NOT WANT!
Yeah I posted it but I don't lead you or anyone astray. I had my doubts about it in the beginning but I grew to a new level of maturity and realized what David said in that verse works! God can bless us and it will be a great thing, and we will know that it is him!
Thank goodness I'm not religious. This line of thought - or at least the sudden emotional spikes - are familiar to me, though it was from when I was about a decade younger than the OP. I'd like to think I would've grown out of such mercurial reactions and fears, and that these sorts of reactions were just my age. But who knows. Part of me can't shake the idea that religious adherence sometimes lends itself to such instability.
So you had this revelation in the last couple days, all suddenly and whatnot? And you're sure that it's not just an emotional spike, but actually a long-term philosophical solution to these problems. I mean, it's in all caps, so clearly it is, but I just want to confirm.
lol, yeah. The urge to smh is strong. I felt bad for playing amateur Sherlock in my first post, so I threw him a bone and tried to offer some uncontroversial advice. As such, I'm taking full credit for his revelation here. Praise Jesus!
My first impression was that this was a typical "Oh dear I have a problem... but wait a second! I found the solution which I can promptly share with you all, isn't God wonderful!?" sort of scam...
Possibly. He's not a spammer though, he's been on KMC discussing DBZ and such since '05. But yeah, it gives off that vibe.
I did give him some sincere advice. You wouldn't begrudge me some fun in process, would you? Not all situations warrant absolute seriousness, and sarcasm isn't always the window to the soul. When pressed, I show proper respect to alternative belief systems. Just not always the individual believers, who are either willfully uninformed or whose messages carry an agenda.
I'm not sure when you turned on me. We used to talk and find where we agreed. Now I get claims of bias and character defamation from you.
Lol, this is the religion forum Gav. I come here to slay enemies, not make friends.
I have a video that I've been wanting to post; I think it raises some valid points about Mormonism from a guy I respect. But it does attack Mormonism, and I was like "it's not worth it to make dudemon dislike me even more," because it would essentially be me talking with him.
I'm friends with a few KMCers. I hate the rest of you.
It's good that you acknowledged it as a Revelation. Yes this will help me and others who see my quote. Alot of the things that we struggle with throughout life gives us challenges in every aspect, physical, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. He's there to comfort us in all of it just as he did for his disciples when they faced the storm on the boat and Christ gave peace to it in an instant. Christ is capable of instant solutions to problems. Just as he calmed the storm in that instant, he can give me Revelation in the same manner. Time is not a thing for him.
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